hoffa00 Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 (edited) Hey all, I am self-employed (so is everyone else in the office) and I work from home most of the time but do have an office where I go in about 2-3x per month. and I met this woman yesterday at my office who is new (well been there for 2 months but I've never seen her) and we had some really good chemistry. She asked me for my card and I didn't have any on me, then she just gave me her email address without me even asking (we were sitting at computers) and I sent her an email saying it was nice to meet her and she replied so we have each other's contact info. There was some good chemistry and I would love to take her out.. so should I go back into the office to try to talk to her again or just call her / shoot her an email? I'd rather go see her face to face and just invite her to lunch casually or something, but it might look odd if I show up 2 days in a row when I usually only come in every other week or so.. And in terms of some super practical people advising against the whole office romance thing -- honestly I don't really care, I'm almost never there, they can't fire me, they won't ask me to leave just because I asked her out on a date I can be smooth about it too.. Edited March 20, 2013 by hoffa00
CryForNoOne Posted March 20, 2013 Posted March 20, 2013 Double reply: Just go back. You said you don't care about what other's think about the office romance. So who cares what they think about you suddenly going in a few days in a row? She won't think it's odd because she's new and doesn't know your visitation patterns yet. If a relationship develops, she'll find it endearing that you did that. If one doesn't, you won't have to see her everyday and will soon be forgotten. You're in a perfect situation to just go in and see her...
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