Mrlonelyone Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Literally I felt a spark that I'm pretty sure must have been static but that's not just what I'm talking about. A good hour of hand holding deep eye contact and talking about things. We were in a semi private area open to others in our major and a couple others were in the room so we went no further. From now on lets call her "M". The next day we usually meet, before class in the common room...I wasn't feeling like I wanted to talk to her. Headphones on, volume up hoodie on. Then she didn't come in until much latter than usual and there were lots of people in the room. We briefly made eye contact with an expression that looked just like It's like our moods were in sync or something. Now here I am holding a gift for M. Not a valentines day gift per se as it relates to our area of study and the word "love" doesn't even come into it. I just wish I could be sure they would like and appreciate it. 1
todreaminblue Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Literally I felt a spark that I'm pretty sure must have been static but that's not just what I'm talking about. A good hour of hand holding deep eye contact and talking about things. We were in a semi private area open to others in our major and a couple others were in the room so we went no further. From now on lets call her "M". The next day we usually meet, before class in the common room...I wasn't feeling like I wanted to talk to her. Headphones on, volume up hoodie on. Then she didn't come in until much latter than usual and there were lots of people in the room. We briefly made eye contact with an expression that looked just like It's like our moods were in sync or something. Now here I am holding a gift for M. Not a valentines day gift per se as it relates to our area of study and the word "love" doesn't even come into it. I just wish I could be sure they would like and appreciate it. it would be sad if you didnt give it to her,I have this gift sitting in my room for someone i adore, it is only second hand, they are mine, i wanted to give them to him, but i cant,I dont see him anymore, and i am sad about that, give it to M so i can live vicariously through your gift giving I cant even use them anymore what i want to gift to a special guy because to me, they are already his....deb
Author Mrlonelyone Posted February 9, 2013 Author Posted February 9, 2013 it would be sad if you didn't give it to her,I have this gift sitting in my room for someone i adore, it is only second hand, they are mine, i wanted to give them to him, but i cant,I don't see him anymore, and i am sad about that, give it to M so i can live vicariously through your gift giving I cant even use them anymore what i want to gift to a special guy because to me, they are already his....deb I know I'm going to play it by ear when the time comes. It's just that, so far this sort of thing has never worked out for me ever. Going right back to grade school. When the teacher had everyone make little construction paper valentines...I never got one and when I gave one it was like Eweeww icky.
candie13 Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 I am soooo jealous of you, I miss that sensation when you feel like you're making magic happen! 2
Author Mrlonelyone Posted February 9, 2013 Author Posted February 9, 2013 Let's see if we can convert that into something more than just what we've had so far.
candie13 Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 patience, please, one doesn't mess with magic!!! 1
Necris Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 That reminds me I wonder why some people put out higher levels of static electricity than others, like myself I am seemingly always charged for some reason, I've even fried alarm clocks by touching them. 1
Author Mrlonelyone Posted February 9, 2013 Author Posted February 9, 2013 That reminds me I wonder why some people put out higher levels of static electricity than others, like myself I am seemingly always charged for some reason, I've even fried alarm clocks by touching them. Really? I'd think that much amperage would kill you. Either that or your like Storm from Xmen. 1
MrCastle Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 We touch, I feel a rush. We clutch, it isn't much but it's enough to make me wonder what's in store for us...it's lust. 2
candie13 Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 this is quite funny, after reading this post, I talk about magic and Mr. Castle about lust... go figure... beauty is in the eyes of the beholder !
MrCastle Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 I talk about magic and Mr. Castle about lust Actually, Eminem
Author Mrlonelyone Posted February 9, 2013 Author Posted February 9, 2013 This is the sort of situation where fear, doubt and low self esteem can make one not act when they should take a chance. 1
Necris Posted February 9, 2013 Posted February 9, 2013 Really? I'd think that much amperage would kill you. Either that or your like Storm from Xmen. I know that sounds odd, but strangely I do seem always charged, like the alarm clock example my digital alarm was ringing so I reach over to turn it off and upon touching it, it started going haywire and a few seconds later it stopped working completely, I had to toss it, it never turned on again.
charlietheginger Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Reminds me once i kissed a chick and as our lips met It popped and zapped our lips. We luaghed it was her sweater generating static electric Charges...
ja123 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 Is M the woman who only started inviting you along for drinks with other colleagues when that young guy started talking to you and showing interest?
Author Mrlonelyone Posted February 10, 2013 Author Posted February 10, 2013 Is M the woman who only started inviting you along for drinks with other colleagues when that young guy started talking to you and showing interest? No M is the young woman (who you thought or assumed was a guy in the above). M is the one I wrote about acting jealous in a previous thread a week or so ago. M is also the one I've had FB drama with but we have no drama with it gone.
ja123 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 OK, thanks for the clarification. I missed your last two posts about her. So seeing as there's mutual interest, and assuming she's open about being with you in public (you alluded to the hand-holding in a public setting, so I assume she is), then I think she would probably love to receive your gift just as much as you would enjoy giving it to her!
Author Mrlonelyone Posted February 10, 2013 Author Posted February 10, 2013 OK, thanks for the clarification. I missed your last two posts about her. So seeing as there's mutual interest, and assuming she's open about being with you in public (you alluded to the hand-holding in a public setting, so I assume she is), then I think she would probably love to receive your gift just as much as you would enjoy giving it to her! I'm going to just give it to her and see how she acts. We've called ourselves keeping our affections a secret. I'll bet everyone there has picked up on things long before we did.
ja123 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 We've called ourselves keeping our affections a secret. What do you mean by that? Is she ashamed to date you publicly?
Author Mrlonelyone Posted February 10, 2013 Author Posted February 10, 2013 What do you mean by that? Is she ashamed to date you publicly? Well ... not exactly. We both like not having our business out there. It remains to be seen how people would act if we were to openly declare we were dating. Based on some of the looks we get in our interactions... I think people have caught on.
ja123 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 OK, just so long as she's not going to be like that other woman you mentioned in your other post ("willing to screw you, but not date you"). Have you explicitly asked her, if she'd be comfortable introducing you to family and friends, if things were to progress? If you haven't asked because it's too soon, do you get the sense that she would be OK to do so?
Author Mrlonelyone Posted February 10, 2013 Author Posted February 10, 2013 You see that's interesting. I knew one of her friends via class. Then another one of her friends came to a departmental meeting...where we invite a speaker to publically discuss their research. I kind of wonder if they were checking me out.
ja123 Posted February 10, 2013 Posted February 10, 2013 So, do you think she discussed her feelings about you with her friends? Why not ask her if she told her friends about seeing you?
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