BetheButterfly Posted January 11, 2013 Share Posted January 11, 2013 Hi. This is not a parody but is sort of a copy of JamesM's thread. I am curious about if you (men) would date an escort/prostitute for a long-term relationship or marriage? Would you want to start a family (have kids) with an escort/prostitute? Would you date a former escort/prostitute for a long-term relationship or marriage? Would you be afraid that she would go back to escorting/prostituting while married to you? Would you want her to escort/prostitute to make more money for the family? Why or why not (to all the questions.) Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted January 11, 2013 Share Posted January 11, 2013 This thread is going to be awesome. *hunkers down and gets out the popcorn* Link to post Share on other sites
Author BetheButterfly Posted January 11, 2013 Author Share Posted January 11, 2013 This thread is going to be awesome. *hunkers down and gets out the popcorn* It's not going to be so interesting if they just answer in three words or less!!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MrCastle Posted January 11, 2013 Share Posted January 11, 2013 LS needs a forum just for escort threads. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author BetheButterfly Posted January 11, 2013 Author Share Posted January 11, 2013 Not for me. Thanks for answering but could you please expound on why "not for" you? Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted January 11, 2013 Share Posted January 11, 2013 LS needs a forum just for escort threads. Seriously. Escort threads are the new retroactive jealousy threads... or porn... or dating for short men 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Treasa Posted January 11, 2013 Share Posted January 11, 2013 Seriously. Escort threads are the new retroactive jealousy threads... or porn... or dating for short men You forgot Asian men. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
edgygirl Posted January 11, 2013 Share Posted January 11, 2013 Seriously. Escort threads are the new retroactive jealousy threads... or porn... or dating for short men Or interracial threads Link to post Share on other sites
Pyro Posted January 11, 2013 Share Posted January 11, 2013 (edited) If that life was behind her completely and she was found to not have any diseases then why the heck not. Assuming too that we have lots in common and all that relationship stuff. Edited January 11, 2013 by Pyro 3 Link to post Share on other sites
ThaWholigan Posted January 11, 2013 Share Posted January 11, 2013 Hi. This is not a parody but is sort of a copy of JamesM's thread. I am curious about if you (men) would date an escort/prostitute for a long-term relationship or marriage? Would you want to start a family (have kids) with an escort/prostitute? At risk of inviting the jeers of my family and friends, I would consider it if we were truly compatible. Would you date a former escort/prostitute for a long-term relationship or marriage? See above. Would you be afraid that she would go back to escorting/prostituting while married to you? No. I'm not afraid of a lot of things. Would you want her to escort/prostitute to make more money for the family? Nah, she wouldn't need to do that. Why or why not (to all the questions.) Thanks. I'm a very open-minded individual, more so than pretty much anyone I know. Some people might think it makes me a doormat (I know my mother worries), but I have my boundaries and I have autonomous freedom within them, as do anyone who fits within them. Regarding sex, I'm pretty much open - bar diseases and other such things. I have even considered a short-term relationship with a woman I have been seeing who is quite a bit more sexually experienced than I am - in the end I declined but not due to the body count. I know a lot of guys would find it difficult to trust a woman with a high body count or who worked in such an industry, but I'd probably be more discriminating about her character overall than her former profession. Maybe there are likely to be more character flaws overall, but the profession is likely to not scare me away. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
somedude81 Posted January 11, 2013 Share Posted January 11, 2013 Only is she would let me marry a couple of her escort girlfriends as well. Link to post Share on other sites
Nyla Posted February 12, 2013 Share Posted February 12, 2013 I love men who are progressive about women who have been around the block or even worked in the sex trade. The old saying "You can't make a whore into a housewife" is a lie. A woman who has been an escort is often so grateful to find a decent man that they turn away from promiscuity when they marry. I've seen it all the time. Most men are hypocrites about women and sex, so it is very refreshing to see men on here who are not like that. My husband is the only man I have ever been with, who never judged me for being hot to trot when I was younger or being a phone sex operator. He knew I was just working out some issues from being sexually abused, as well as making up for being so overprotected growing up. When I moved out of my parents' house, I was like a kid in a candy store. I wasn't sleeping with a new guy every month or going out just to look for a one night stand, but I wasn't an angel either. My husband just wanted to be sure that I had no diseases or known sex tapes. I would never make a sex tape or let anyone take dirty pictures of me. I also practiced safe sex with casual flings and only stopped using condoms with LTR's after the men were tested. Link to post Share on other sites
ltjg45 Posted February 12, 2013 Share Posted February 12, 2013 If it's not a long-term relationship, I do not want any part in it. I'm not going to marry (or even date) a prostitute. I value women as human beings, not my pet animals waiting for my next command. (Mind you, if I had the choice, I rather not be in command during a relationship but I will if I'm forced to.) Link to post Share on other sites
its a lifestyle Posted February 12, 2013 Share Posted February 12, 2013 (edited) Being the hypocritical and controversial person I am... I see escorts/prostitutes in a different light than I see sluts. (I'm not talking about scruffy crackwhores, I'm talking about $500/$1000/hour escorts. I hold a certain respect for women who do it for money rather than promiscuous-pleasure... I find the entrepreneurial, classy, smart but shady -esque really attractive. Some kind of bonnie & clyde relationship? maybe... will it last to reach marriage? I doubt it. Edited February 12, 2013 by its a lifestyle Link to post Share on other sites
ls32ssibm Posted February 12, 2013 Share Posted February 12, 2013 It would be impossible to get past. Either way, I would never be compatible with someone who decided to become to escort. Too square. Link to post Share on other sites
animalover Posted February 12, 2013 Share Posted February 12, 2013 I didn't know if I should answer in this post or not... since is just looking for controversy and drama... but here we go with my point of view.. I would not date, have a relationship or marry a woman who would engage in casual sex ... but ultimately I would definitely would not want to have someone besides me who had so little self worth that would sell herself for money... Link to post Share on other sites
Necris Posted February 12, 2013 Share Posted February 12, 2013 No, never, the simple fact she's in the line of work shows we do not have the same values at all. Link to post Share on other sites
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