zanesfan Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 I meet this guy on pof that I really like. After 4 days we went bowling and the night was amazing. Prior to this, we talked every night for at least 3 hours. When we didn't talk we would text all day. We originally made plans to go out last weekend but I decided at the last minute to go and visit my family. He wanted to see me before I left, so we made plans to meet and again it was a lovely date. I'm at my parents house and he stated he wanted to see me when I got back. so we made plans to go out on a date to bowl again since we had so much fun. However in the past day or two I haven't really received any messages from him. Yesterday I text Gm and 6 hours later he responded. Today I have heard nothing. Not really sure what to think. Am I over thinking this? Even when we talked yesterday he responded to my texts but he didn't really communicate with me. The first three days while I was here everything was normal. So I don't understand the lack of communication now. I don't want to bring it up because I've only known him 2 weeks so I figured I would come here
sid3 Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 He's most likely pulling back a little so he doesn't come across as too interested. A classic move found in chapter one in a typical guys dating book. Either that or you said something that pissed him off.
Author zanesfan Posted December 24, 2012 Author Posted December 24, 2012 No I haven't said or done anything. So this is a typical guy thing?
Divasu Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 O-M-G!! He's asking you out consistently and things seem to be going good. Why are you making a fuss over a missed text 'in the past day or two'? During the HOLIDAYS no less. Okay, say it turns out he's NOT interested. No sense worrying about it now. Start to worry when he makes statements that he's 'not interested'. Start to worry when you haven't seen each other in weeks. Start to worry when you broach the topic of 'you and him', and he evades, becomes vague, etc.
GLDheart Posted December 24, 2012 Posted December 24, 2012 ...Start to worry when you broach the topic of 'you and him', and he evades, becomes vague, etc. I think this is kind of what you fear is happening. No worries. You've only known this guy a tiny bit. It's no real loss if you stop and think about it. Some people can only keep up the "everything is so perfect act" for so long.
Author zanesfan Posted December 24, 2012 Author Posted December 24, 2012 Your right. Oh btw... I did hear from him. He text me and said he was glad to hear from me and couldn't wait until i got back. However dating is soooo hard. And I never really connect with someone. So when I do.. its nice.
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