FrustratedGuy91 Posted October 14, 2012 Posted October 14, 2012 I went out in sort of a date, it was something like this: Me, a male friend, a female friend and her friend. We hanged out had a couple of drinks then we went to a night club, I was subtle at first until my friend's friend let me get close enough then I went for a kiss, after that we made out several times in the club and outside. And then my female friend was less then subtle that she wanted me and her friend gone. (She wanted us to go, well you know...) At any rate the girl had already said she was tired before, so she told me "I don't know what you have in mind but I'm going home, I'm really tired". So we walked for a while and it started getting cold, so I gave her my jacket then I called a cab for her and we cuddled while I kept her warm until the cab arrived. Then I kissed her on the cheek, offered to pay for her cab (to which she said no) and that was it. Is there any way to tell if the date turned out good? Should I ask her out again? How long should I wait?
clia Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 What you went on doesn't sound like a date to me. It sounds like a casual event where you happened to hook up with her. If you like her, call her on the phone, ask her out, plan a date, and take her out. Then, report back.
mortensorchid Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 I agree with Cila. You'll never know unless you ask the person in question and get an answer.
Author FrustratedGuy91 Posted October 15, 2012 Author Posted October 15, 2012 Well it's not a date per se, but it is rather common in my country and for people my age. Still, I really like this girl but I'm not sure what to do. Would a conventional date be the best thing to do now? You know since we kinda skipped a few steps. (Also her friend happens to be a close friend of mine so she can give me a lil' hand). I also did talk to her on Facebook (I already had her) and it went well, she's known to be a little rusty when chatting on FB so knowing that it went well. I actually forgot to tell her I had a good time the other night, but I was thinking I could still say it if I ask her out. IDK I'm kinda lost :/
oaks Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 IDK I'm kinda lost :/ Even though 2 people have already told you what to do next? I'll make it 3: call her and ask her out on a date. 1
Author FrustratedGuy91 Posted October 15, 2012 Author Posted October 15, 2012 Even though 2 people have already told you what to do next? I'll make it 3: call her and ask her out on a date. I don't have her number. I guess facebook works fine too, right?
oaks Posted October 15, 2012 Posted October 15, 2012 I don't have her number. I guess facebook works fine too, right? This time your question is rhetorical, right? Good luck arranging the date.
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