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so before i even get started lets just say i already know i'm going to get post calling me an ******* and so on so forth...ehh whatever

 

her and i have been together 8 months now. she does everything for me, would do anything for me; long story short she treats me like a king. 100x better than my ex of 7 years treated me, yet i cant seem to fall in love with her. yea i love her, but 8 months in i cant help but feel like i should be way more attached. instead, i've gotten bored...actually told her thins, that i was bored and wanted to see other people...but she wont let me go. she tells me on a daily basis how in love with me she is and i believe it. she doesnt just tell me, she shows me. i have never been treated so well, yet i cant feel myself getting any more attached to her. hell if anything it gets kind of annoying at times.

 

feelings are still there for the ex though i have moved on for the most part. i just kind of want to be single and worry about myself, yet the only way i can do that i by letting go of something i KNOW i shouldn't. not only that but that fact that i will leterally have to be an ******* to get her to leave...ive tried to leave multiple time, she fights to be with me like no one ever has before. she's what almost every guy would want in a woman (ALMOST)...

 

i dont know what to do. i feel bad when she tells me she loves me and i say it back because its no where near as much as she loves me.

 

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so before i even get started lets just say i already know i'm going to get post calling me an ******* and so on so forth...ehh whatever

 

her and i have been together 8 months now. she does everything for me, would do anything for me; long story short she treats me like a king. 100x better than my ex of 7 years treated me, yet i cant seem to fall in love with her. yea i love her, but 8 months in i cant help but feel like i should be way more attached. instead, i've gotten bored...actually told her thins, that i was bored and wanted to see other people...but she wont let me go. she tells me on a daily basis how in love with me she is and i believe it. she doesnt just tell me, she shows me. i have never been treated so well, yet i cant feel myself getting any more attached to her. hell if anything it gets kind of annoying at times.

 

feelings are still there for the ex though i have moved on for the most part. i just kind of want to be single and worry about myself, yet the only way i can do that i by letting go of something i KNOW i shouldn't. not only that but that fact that i will leterally have to be an ******* to get her to leave...ive tried to leave multiple time, she fights to be with me like no one ever has before. she's what almost every guy would want in a woman (ALMOST)...

 

i dont know what to do. i feel bad when she tells me she loves me and i say it back because its no where near as much as she loves me.

 

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output........translations you need to let her go and find someone who loves her as much as she can love...its the best you can do by her.....best wishes..deb

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