F.R.E.D Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Hey loveshack community!, i came here cuz i have a problem with a women. I'm gonna start from a beggining. I met this women at the gym, shes my instructor i think she's somewhere in her mid twenties and i'm 17 years old.. She's really gorgerous women and i'm not gonna say that i love her but i think i'm attracted to her and i want to date her or smth like dat but the problem is i'm a lil bit scarred of rejection. I think it was a creep move i don't know why but i gave her a present (flower) and the funniest thing is she wasn't there.. it was a little awkward so i gave her co-worker she smiled and thanked me, in next 2 days i met that women and she was looking at me i don't know in a good way or in bad way but she looked at me. It was a little embarrasing but oh well.. u can't judge a guy who wants to attract older chick hehe.. Well anyway any tips how to attract her i would appreciate.
Emilia Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 It's unlikely that she sees you much more than a kid sorry. A 17 year old is not an adult yet even. I think it would be better if you talked to girls your own age at least for a little while longer. 4
Titanwolf Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Be careful. I was a personal trainer for a while and we're required to be friendly (almost too friendly) towards our clients. I am sure she is training many other men as well as you (who is not considered a man yet) and I'm almost certain that you're not the only one who feels the way you do. I honestly don't think there's anything you can do to attract her at this point, especially given your age and that's just my honest opinion. Of course, if you come back here and prove me wrong, I will eat my shoe. 2
Author F.R.E.D Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 It's unlikely that she sees you much more than a kid sorry. A 17 year old is not an adult yet even. I think it would be better if you talked to girls your own age at least for a little while longer. I was thinking something similar too.. But ehh.. i can't stand a girl my age they are inmature and i kinda don't feel my heart racing when i talk with them.. I have been rejected by a girl i think she's somewhere 22-23 but she looks much younger and well when i asked her number she sayed "are ya comming here tommorow? if yes then lets talk tommorow" i sayed yeah sure and when the day came when i should meet her she didn't came.. (ehh i'm so lame lol) after a week i met her and we chatted a lil bit she gave me some lame excuses, but after that rejection i didn't give a crap about her so i moved on. Now i desperatly want to attract my instructor but i think i should get some advice here b4 going up to her.
CptObvious Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 You know, you could wait 10 years and you'll be in the prime of your life, and she'll be like 35+. You obviously have no chance now, so you can cope with that by telling yourself you'll be bustin all kinds of nuts all up in there later on.
Woggle Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 It can work if you are 27 and she is 38 but you are not even old enough to vote yet. 1
Author F.R.E.D Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 So are u suggesting me to move on and give up on her?
veggirl Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 So are u suggesting me to move on and give up on her? yes Fred. Does she know how old (young) you are? I mean saying "she is 22 but looks younger!" really really shows your age
CptObvious Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 So are u suggesting me to move on and give up on her? Give up on trying to get laid, but don't give up on enjoying the eye candy. Afterall, that's what you paid for right? You do realize you can bodybuild on your own like everyone else.
Titanwolf Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 You do realize you can bodybuild on your own like everyone else. One of those trade secrets that PTs are never allowed to mention
Author F.R.E.D Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 yes Fred. Does she know how old (young) you are? I mean saying "she is 22 but looks younger!" really really shows your age Nah i think u misread something.. I'm right know pick-uping instructor that other chick is in the past. xoxo And yes she knows i was making a program for my fitness so there was a question "how old are u" i didn't want to lie so i writed 17.
Author F.R.E.D Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 Give up on trying to get laid, but don't give up on enjoying the eye candy. Afterall, that's what you paid for right? You do realize you can bodybuild on your own like everyone else. Haha ur statement made my day, well to be honest of course i though to be laid by her if u know what i mean xoxo, but there's one thing i didn't understand what did u mean by "enjoying the eye candy" ? One of those trade secrets that PTs are never allowed to mention Hey Titan, and btw thanks for ur suggestion, well i didn't expect to be that but anyway thanks. Ehh sorry for D.P ;(
Titanwolf Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 If you're honestly that new to training your body, I recommend heading over to the bodybuilding.com forum and gain some free knowledge there. I'd advise you to stay away from the megasite though, it spreads a lot of misinformation.
Author F.R.E.D Posted September 18, 2012 Author Posted September 18, 2012 If you're honestly that new to training your body, I recommend heading over to the bodybuilding.com forum and gain some free knowledge there. I'd advise you to stay away from the megasite though, it spreads a lot of misinformation. Yea i know dat site i sometime visit it, but anyway i have been thanking u for dis. Be careful. I was a personal trainer for a while and we're required to be friendly (almost too friendly) towards our clients. I am sure she is training many other men as well as you (who is not considered a man yet) and I'm almost certain that you're not the only one who feels the way you do. I honestly don't think there's anything you can do to attract her at this point, especially given your age and that's just my honest opinion. Of course, if you come back here and prove me wrong, I will eat my shoe.
Necromancer Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 I was once at my friends house chilling with him and his sister (she was 25/or 26?). Happened 2 years ago was 16. She told us about this guy who was 18 and was hitting on her, she told us that she saw him literally just as a child. But i understand you i find many women from the age 25-35 incredibly hot even hotter than girls my age.
CarrieT Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Yea i know dat site i sometime visit it, but anyway i have been thanking u for dis. As an older woman that get hits on all the time from younger guys, I can tell you that a HUGE turn-off is this sort of communication. I'm sure you don't speak like this, but when you start texting, don't use "text speak" like "u" for "you" and "dis" for "this" and "dat" for "that." You might be really hot, but showing a lack of intelligence by taking these shortcuts displays immaturity and lack of an education.
rocketman122 Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 besides my ex wife, I have never dated anyone younger than me. I prefer woman older than me for many reasons. one of them NOT being a fantasy to date an older woman, like most of you younglings have. reading your posts, you definitely sound 17..even younger. at that age, woman are more mature than the same male age. so a 22 YO F needs to date a 25YO M so they can be on the same level, maturity wise.
FitChick Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Judging by your writing, you should pay more attention to your education and not women. Women like intelligent men who tend to be more successful. 1
veggirl Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 I just wanna pinch your cheeks Fred. I bet you're adorable! 1
suladas Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 Agreed way to much difference. Although if you were 18 and able to get her into the sack, props to you! I'm 23 and dated a 35 year old, but if I was 18 I wouldn't date someone who's 30. When you get older, it changes a lot. I know 5 years ago the maturity level would have been VERY different between us. I mean at 18 I was kinda mature for my age, but at 23 it's a much different game. Older women are better though
yongyong Posted September 18, 2012 Posted September 18, 2012 stick to 15~17 year old girls. trust me, you will understand when you get older
Oxy Moronovich Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 Hey loveshack community!, i came here cuz i have a problem with a women. I'm gonna start from a beggining. I met this women at the gym, shes my instructor i think she's somewhere in her mid twenties and i'm 17 years old.. She's really gorgerous women and i'm not gonna say that i love her but i think i'm attracted to her and i want to date her or smth like dat but the problem is i'm a lil bit scarred of rejection. I think it was a creep move i don't know why but i gave her a present (flower) and the funniest thing is she wasn't there.. it was a little awkward so i gave her co-worker she smiled and thanked me, in next 2 days i met that women and she was looking at me i don't know in a good way or in bad way but she looked at me. It was a little embarrasing but oh well.. u can't judge a guy who wants to attract older chick hehe.. Well anyway any tips how to attract her i would appreciate. There are actually alot of older women attracted to minors. If that wasn't the case, there wouldn't be such an epidemic of older women teachers having sex with their students in the U.S. Few women will admit they are attracted to minors because it is illegal and creepy. But a 17 yr old guy can score with a woman in her mid-20s. I recently took a speech class where one of my classmates was 22 and the father of her child was 17! That being said, don't let others here discourage you about having sex with an older woman. I'm a 28 yr old guy. I've met many, many older women who openly flirt and show interest in me. Sometimes they blatantly do it while their kid is right beside them. Wait til you're 18 to start going after older women. Honestly, there aren't any shortage of older women who will have sex with an 18 yr old.
Author F.R.E.D Posted September 19, 2012 Author Posted September 19, 2012 As an older woman that get hits on all the time from younger guys, I can tell you that a HUGE turn-off is this sort of communication. I'm sure you don't speak like this, but when you start texting, don't use "text speak" like "u" for "you" and "dis" for "this" and "dat" for "that." You might be really hot, but showing a lack of intelligence by taking these shortcuts displays immaturity and lack of an education. Judging by your writing, you should pay more attention to your education and not women. Women like intelligent men who tend to be more successful. I didn't know that it was so important , i just somehow prefer to write like this well anyway thank you. I just wanna pinch your cheeks Fred. I bet you're adorable! Haha, thank you but i would like to know why i'm adorable? Agreed way to much difference. Although if you were 18 and able to get her into the sack, props to you! I'm 23 and dated a 35 year old, but if I was 18 I wouldn't date someone who's 30. When you get older, it changes a lot. I know 5 years ago the maturity level would have been VERY different between us. I mean at 18 I was kinda mature for my age, but at 23 it's a much different game. Older women are better though I agree older women are much better then youngster especially in our era. There are actually alot of older women attracted to minors. If that wasn't the case, there wouldn't be such an epidemic of older women teachers having sex with their students in the U.S. Few women will admit they are attracted to minors because it is illegal and creepy. But a 17 yr old guy can score with a woman in her mid-20s. I recently took a speech class where one of my classmates was 22 and the father of her child was 17! That being said, don't let others here discourage you about having sex with an older woman. I'm a 28 yr old guy. I've met many, many older women who openly flirt and show interest in me. Sometimes they blatantly do it while their kid is right beside them. Wait til you're 18 to start going after older women. Honestly, there aren't any shortage of older women who will have sex with an 18 yr old. Thanks i'm appreciate your comment. So anyway i'm gonna meet her tomorrow i guess.. So any tips guys/girls?
Emilia Posted September 19, 2012 Posted September 19, 2012 So any tips guys/girls? you mean apart from 'don't do it' - which is what everyone has been saying?
Author F.R.E.D Posted September 19, 2012 Author Posted September 19, 2012 you mean apart from 'don't do it' - which is what everyone has been saying? Yeah you got that right. xoxo.
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