Imported Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 This is the strangest thing I have seen in a long time. I got a new neighbor recently and wow, she is just beautiful. Great face, ass, boobs and overall tight body. As far as I can tell, she almost never leaves her apartment (been here nearly a month now). No one visits. Her car plates/registration tags would indicate she is not really new to the area .........no I am not a stocker, I swear.... I just notice things! I've randomly bumped into her once coming home on one of the rare occasions she leaves her place (I think all she does is goes to work, goes to the gym on off hours and goes to the supermarket.....no not a stocker!!!). I said "hi". She said something weird. I didn't know what to say and I think I gave the look of..."wait...WTF", so I just turned around and went in my apartment. I had a hard day at work, another girl I was kinda seeing confusded the hell out of me that day and my neighbor caught me at a time when my mental pants were down. On hindsight, I shoulda said something. Anyone else seen really attractive women that are recluse and socially awkward? Not that I am a social juggernaught myself, just strange to see a girl this attractive be so weird.
wwwjd Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Wow, do you live by me?? I have that exact same girl living by me in my apartment complex. Actually right next door and our walls are paper thin. You can't help but notice peoples patterns over time, or hear what they are up to in apartments with crappy insolation. I've tried to be friendly and say Hi a few times, and she acknowledges with with a very negative hi and no eye contact, never a smile, no visits, no friends, no TV, radio or any noise.... I honestly worry if she would off herself from depression someday and could I have been nicer to her? It is kind of scary. Maybe she has this whole other outside life and I really hope that is true. But she seems very jaded, and man hating. Not just to me, but I had a female friend visit and she crossed paths with her and tried to say hi and got nothing. People can live their own life, but other humans might start to worry about them living like hermits.
wwwjd Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 You've inspired me. I plan to step out on that ledge and push to be a little more conversational with her. I mean we live in the next room from each other, a little humane common curtesy at LEAST would be nice. But I'm not looking for GF or anything right now, so it will be a tough line between just being friendly or hitting on someone without knowing how they will interpret it
yongyong Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Please don't lie to yourself 'I just want to help her!' If she was a fat & nasty looking girl, you wouldn't give a damn. Obviously, I will do the same 7
Negative Nancy Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Please don't lie to yourself 'I just want to help her!' If she was a fat & nasty looking girl, you wouldn't give a damn. exactly. you guys are pathetic, it's so easy to see through your bs justifications... 3
NateC Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 exactly. you guys are pathetic, it's so easy to see through your bs justifications... Your name is relevant to your comment. Anyway...it wouldn't hurt to strike up a conversation. Worst thing that happens is that she ignores you (which is what's essentially happening anyway), so what's there to lose?
D-Lish Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 I actually wish some of my neighbours would say hello to me. I've been in my new place for 6 months now, a big townhouse complex with tons of people- but everyone keeps to themselves here.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Their all online D-lish. I think people of all kinds of looks can be socially ackward or really social. Of course, it's easier to understand someone very attractive having good social standing more easily. There is always that rare hot guy that acutally wants a good healthy relationship and not just to bang random girls. Perhaps this girl had a tough life or was abused. Perhaps she is jsut a loner and has great parents. We can speculate all day. Anyway, if she wasn't attractive we wouldn't even be having this convo. Which makes me sad. 5
dasein Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 She could have an entire other life online. Yep, lvl 80 paladin, warlock AND assassin.
Feelsgoodman Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 I actually wish some of my neighbours would say hello to me. I've been in my new place for 6 months now, a big townhouse complex with tons of people- but everyone keeps to themselves here. Why not take the initiative and say hello first?
irc333 Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 I've tried to be friendly and say Hi a few times, and she acknowledges with with a very negative hi and no eye contact, never a smile, no visits, no friends, no TV, radio or any noise.... I honestly worry if she would off herself from depression someday and could I have been nicer to her? It is kind of scary. Perhaps these are one of the many socially inept, but yet rather attractive women we all see on dating sites. On the weekends, she goes into her apt, locks the door, and spends Sat night on the POF or other dating sites. lol I didn't know attractive women could be reclusive. Guess that explains the hot chicks on dating sites. lol
Feelsgoodman Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 I think people of all kinds of looks can be socially ackward or really social. Of course, it's easier to understand someone very attractive having good social standing more easily. There is always that rare hot guy that acutally wants a good healthy relationship and not just to bang random girls. Just because someone is not very social does not mean that he or she is "socially awkward". You are being judgmental without even knowing the woman in question. Some people are very private and like to keep to themselves. There is also the possibility that she is involved in some sort of an illegal activity and wants to keep a low profile.
Anela Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 My sister is that girl. She met her fiance online, years ago. She has guys fawn over her. I was okay-looking, and also reclusive for a long while.
nessaaa Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 you are dumb if you think beautiful people don't have issues:rolleyes: 1
D-Lish Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 Why not take the initiative and say hello first? I have, I do. Not to find dates, just to be friendly. I used to chat with a really nice guy from a few doors down because we'd run into one another with our dogs- but I ran into him walking the pups with his gf and when I went to say hello I got a death stare from her... That was the end of that social interaction. I make a little progress meeting fellow dog owners in the park, but they are either gay, much older, or homeless. I have found that the most friendly pack of people in my neighbourhood are the homeless teens in the park. You'd think in a big city it would be easier to meet people, but I find it the opposite.
oaks Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 This is the strangest thing I have seen in a long time. I got a new neighbor recently and wow, she is just beautiful. Great face, ass, boobs and overall tight body. As far as I can tell, she almost never leaves her apartment (been here nearly a month now). It's been less than a month... you've still got time to turn up at her door with a bottle of wine and a pizza to welcome her to the area.
dasein Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 You know upon rereading the title, I was expecting a really kinky story in the OP. Shame on you OP for disappointing us.
Negative Nancy Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 You know upon rereading the title, I was expecting a really kinky story in the OP. Shame on you OP for disappointing us. typical male statement.....as expected, of course
dasein Posted April 19, 2012 Posted April 19, 2012 typical male statement.....as expected, of course Blue Light Special on "sense of humor" Aisle 5, why don't you run on out and get yourself one!
mesmerized Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Just because a girl is hot doesn't mean she can have it all...
Author Imported Posted April 20, 2012 Author Posted April 20, 2012 It's been less than a month... you've still got time to turn up at her door with a bottle of wine and a pizza to welcome her to the area. I'm going to be friendly when I see her, but not really push for anything. She's my neighbor and I like where I live. It's not that I don't believe a girl this attractive looking can't be so reclusive, it's just I have never seen one before. Attractive women and women in general don't really have to approach guys, they just need to be receptive to approaches. So as reclusive as she seems to be, there has got to have been many guys trying to get with her. There are many guys out there that are reclusive. Many of them are good looking. However, as good looking as they might be......extremely few girls hard approach.
Leigh 87 Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 I was that SORT OF that girl for a period, too. I had super long thick blonde hair, and was super thin, worked out every day, huge boobs yet very skinny. I am not stunning like those girks are, but I have straight, nice teeth, and a clear complexion and nice eyes. I AM NOT BEAUTIFUL like those girls - but I was an attractive/ hot girl, that was reclusive. I never smiled or talked to any guys. When I did, I scared them off after they pursued me, because I did not know how to interact with people. One had the balls to ask me why a girl as gorgeous as me never smiled:( Turns out, I had a mental illness and as bullied growing up ( bed teeth before bracess, bad pimpes/acne, overweight). So, as an adult, at one stage I hibernated inside, and did not know how to talk to men. Or people in general. Even though I worked out every day, had a body guys would comment on in the street daily, and was not beautiful,but attractive enough for people to think my hermit - tendicies were STRANGE. The most important point, was: I HATED IT. I LONGED to have friends, and for people to include me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11 I just lacked the social skills to hold people's attention:( I was very nice at first, but could not maintain a personality, because I HAD NONE. DUe to lack of social interaction for years. Now, I am not as hot or even hot to many people, but I have learnt the art of social interaction, through my boyfriend. He was the ONE person who talked to me online....online, so I could hold my personality and not alter much. He liked me a lot and when he met me, i was very hot, haha, so he wanted to help me through my huge social issues. If you do want to help such a girl, PROCEED WITH CAUTION. Your friends will likely have some sort of a beef with them - after all, if a girls lacking in social skills, there is a chance she will accidently act deviant and offend people. My boyfriends good mate cracked on to me and tried to kiss me, when he had just broken up with his g/f of 6 years. Also a great friend of my bf. OF COURSE - because I was socially retarted, when I told my b/f what the guy did to me, * tried to do), the guy LIED and told every one that I was an ugly slut, who he would never touch. I was SO taken aback, I was new to being around people at ALL, and mean folk can turn u right off! There might be a chance these girls WANT to be helped. Maybe one of them has an eating disorder, whch makes people act reclusive at times and never stable or happy? You never know. Of course, they might just be miserable or unhappy people, due to abuse or something far more horrific. I DOUBT a very beautiful girl has no reason that she is not at least socially normal. COME ONE - extremely beautiful people ( which I am not nor ever was), but if these girls are VERY beautiful - ALL beautiful people get a leg up in life, socially! People , guys and girls, throw themselves in their ditection, and try to make friends or f*ck them. So, They are either socially retarded, thrrough home schooling or a strange family.. Or somethingm ust have happened to make themt hat way.
Thieves Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 Unexpectedly, I don't know why, but I have to admit that I feel (or felt) a bit annoyed when reading the OP... I know that no harm was meant by it, as it seems to be more about curiosity than anything else, but I honestly think that threads like these show just how much "expectation" or stereotypes are placed upon people who are deemed typically 'attractive', such as: attractive people are automatically more socially adept, attractive people have certain personalities, or have less problems than unattractive people. Obviously, no one here is directly implying these assumptions, but you also can't deny that they do exist in society and are even more perpetuated by the media, along the lines of TV and movies. My main concern is that somehow, some people don't realize the pressure it puts on people who may be seen as attractive by others -- pressure to be the usual "image" of what an 'attractive' man or woman should act or be like, and how if they don't exactly measure up to those ideas and expectations, they're almost thought of as less of an attractive person. Or just "weird". I can speak personally about this, not as much now but when I was younger, especially seeing that I did have men who thought I was attractive but were "put off" by the fact that I wasn't always super bubbly, didn't have a ton of popular friends, didn't have many boyfriends, and was just... offbeat -- unlike a lot of the other girls they found typically attractive. I think a lot of people in a situation like that would feel more at ease if others didn't automatically assume things about them because of their appearance. People are individuals, attractive or not. Point is, maybe this girl is this way because... well, that's just how she is. She may not be a recluse, but just introverted and likes staying in a lot. Maybe she's just shy. But like you said, it wouldn't hurt to keep saying "Hi" and trying to make friendly conversation. I'm sure after a while, she'll appreciate the effort ... 1
D-Lish Posted April 20, 2012 Posted April 20, 2012 (I don't get along with most females). HUGE red flag when a woman says this, there couldn't be a bigger red flag than a statement like this coming from a woman. 1
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