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Women are funny...you start dating one, and the others come out of the woodworks


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My ex gf called and wants to give it another try, and then every girl I been flirting with this year started hitting me up on fb wanting to hang and texting. I think girls get jealous off each other and will even give men sex just to be on top even if they don't really like a dude. It's funny. And obviously a girl can act like she doesn't like you and ignore you but really want to date you. You cannot judge a woman by how she acts at all. Lol.

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Women really are impossible to understand, anyway I heard women are attracted to what they can't have something about the forbiddeness of it makes them want it that's why they go after badboys rather than nice guys or try to date married men or men in some sort of relationship with another woman.

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Some men do the same thing (ie only pursue attached women).

 

I seem to recall some man here starting a thread awhile back asking who was the bigger loser... a single woman or a single man?

 

So, the context is that only those who are currently attached are worth pursuing...

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Its like at an Auction...and nobody is bidding on an item...

 

Then one person bids, and then another, and another, before you know it people just want something just because someone else does!

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Yeah, women do this out of jealousy, insecurity, and because they are followers who wanna do what other women want/are doing. Such is la femme.

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Yeah I've heard it too, that nothing is more attractive than a taken man.

 

Some men do the same thing (ie only pursue attached women).

 

I seem to recall some man here starting a thread awhile back asking who was the bigger loser... a single woman or a single man?

 

So, the context is that only those who are currently attached are worth pursuing...

That's pretty far out there conclusion to come to.

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Some people want what they can't have. Some people like to make trouble for others out of jealousy because they have something (a relationship) that the person wants and doesn't have. Some people feel there must be something really great about the person, since he has someone who wants to be in a relationship with the person, so his "stock value" goes up because others see value in him.

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Yeah I've heard it too, that nothing is more attractive than a taken man.

Then you need to start dating pronto. Even if it's a chick you only find mildly attractive. Then when a hottie tries to steal you, dumb the average chick and go for the hottie. Then we'll finally be seeing posts by somedude saying, "I finally got a gf and she's hot!!"

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This is why all men who are single and desire to encumber themselves with a GF should cultivate several good looking female running buddies. They can be married, single, lesbian whatever, so long as they are physically attractive and well put together. The difference in results in meeting women out is astounding. Shouldn't be this way in rational world, but that's not the world we are dealing with when attracting women. Just a given reality.

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Actually, this reminds me of children.

 

There is a toy is on the floor and nobody is playing with it.

 

A kid picks it and starts to play. Instantly three other kids notice and they all want to have it.

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My ex gf called and wants to give it another try, and then every girl I been flirting with this year started hitting me up on fb wanting to hang and texting. I think girls get jealous off each other and will even give men sex just to be on top even if they don't really like a dude. It's funny. And obviously a girl can act like she doesn't like you and ignore you but really want to date you. You cannot judge a woman by how she acts at all. Lol.

 

Recommend pump and dump for all the others, then when they're blowing up your phone you can tell the ex that they're all crazy but her, and that's why you always wanted her back.

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I would say women who pursue men who are in a relationship aren't worth pursuing it shows their character.

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Women generally don't like to think for themselves and prefer to follow trends (for example, look at all the women racking up credit card debt to buy a ridiculously ugly and overpriced LV handbag).

 

When a woman sees you with another girl, she automatically assumes that you have value because the other woman has chosen you. It's called pre-selection. If you are single, there is no pre-selection, which means that she'd have to use her own head to figure out your "value". And that's just too difficult.

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Then you need to start dating pronto. Even if it's a chick you only find mildly attractive. Then when a hottie tries to steal you, dumb the average chick and go for the hottie. Then we'll finally be seeing posts by somedude saying, "I finally got a gf and she's hot!!"

 

That's an awful thing to do, using others for your own personal gain. Besides the moral wrongness inherent in this it could backfire spectacularly who knows maybe the "hot chick" is just using you so she can get the guy she really wants but you are just someone to use on the side and inflate her ego.

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I also think this has to do with the energy, the vibe you put out. For example, you were probably not "healthy" in your last relationship, it ended, and now you have a better energy about you.

 

I see this ALL the time with me. I just ended a relationship and now have 3-4 new girls in my life.

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Yeah I've heard it too, that nothing is more attractive than a taken man.

 

 

That's pretty far out there conclusion to come to.

 

I didn't make that conclusion... the person who created the other thread did... My point is that it isn't just some women who are only 'validated' by going after an attached person.

 

I honestly never saw the allure of that. Why would I want a cheater? Men who pursue me when I have a BF/husband... or men who are attached when they pursue me. Both are equally unattractive.

 

As you know, I'm pretty black and white when it comes to dating.

 

I ended my last relationship as soon as I was sure it wasn't going to lead to marriage... even though we were compatible in alot of ways (as an example).

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Maybe it is a taken man thing. Even though I ain't taken at this point in time.

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Maybe it is a taken man thing. Even though I ain't taken at this point in time.

But the thing is they think you are taken or gonna be. One time, I was at Applebee's eating with my sister. I noticed interested looks and smiles from women (both workers and customers) than I usually notice. When I went back later by myself, I saw several female workers who seemed so interested before. This time, they treated me like wallpaper. That happened years ago when I first noticed the phenomenon you're talking about.

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I never get on as much as when I am out with a woman. A wedding especially is like a chick magnet. It is true and any taken man can tell you this.

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Have posted this before and will shorten it. Was out with good looking girlfriends (3 of them) years ago, got to the "next place" before them. Decided to try a quick social experiment, asked three women to dance (out of range of each other), big dance floor, lots out there. All three turned me down, rather dismissively. Minutes later, my GFs came in, grabbed me and dragged me out on the floor to dance with them. Checked back and two of the women who rejected my dance invitation were staring me down trying to make eye contact. The third woman actually CAME OUT on the dance floor and started trying to dance between me and my GFs. That's when the lightning bolt, the satori, hits you. And have seen it repeated hundreds of times after.

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Ok... so, before you guys get carried away... there is another phenomena at play here.

 

Sometimes we feel more comfortable being friendly to men who are with another woman because we know we won't get hit on.

 

It has nothing to do with anything romantic. It's only in (some) of you men's minds that friendly = potential pickup. ;)

 

That's ok. Makes it easier for me when I actually DO want to pick one of you up... ha ha. (the single ones, of course!).

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Some men do the same thing (ie only pursue attached women).

 

I seem to recall some man here starting a thread awhile back asking who was the bigger loser... a single woman or a single man?

 

So, the context is that only those who are currently attached are worth pursuing...

 

deflection. you know gals do it but wont admit it. instead of admitting it you blame guys.

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What I have found is that some women will become more attracted to you if they think (or know) that other women are attracted to you. Almost like a confirmation of your personal magnetism, attractiveness and high value. Seen it happen, been out with female cousins and friends and women tend to respond more positively to me in general.

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Ok... so, before you guys get carried away... there is another phenomena at play here.

 

Sometimes we feel more comfortable being friendly to men who are with another woman because we know we won't get hit on.

 

It has nothing to do with anything romantic. It's only in (some) of you men's minds that friendly = potential pickup. ;)

 

That's ok. Makes it easier for me when I actually DO want to pick one of you up... ha ha. (the single ones, of course!).

 

liar. its girls prefer guys who are in demand.

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Ok... so, before you guys get carried away... there is another phenomena at play here.

 

Sometimes we feel more comfortable being friendly to men who are with another woman because we know we won't get hit on.

 

It has nothing to do with anything romantic. It's only in (some) of you men's minds that friendly = potential pickup. ;)

 

That's ok. Makes it easier for me when I actually DO want to pick one of you up... ha ha. (the single ones, of course!).

 

So the woman that wanted to bring me to her hotel room on a business trip and see what I was made of on my business trip then started doubting her own attractiveness after I turned her down was just being friendly?

 

The women who hit who blatantly sex it up in front of me when they hear I am married are just being friendly?

 

I never see women become as obsessed and hooked as I do when I see them with already taken men.

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