Theloner91 Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 I've met this really cool girl a few days ago, we hung out with mutual friends a few times and a couple of days back we organized a beach bonfire. There we got drunk and cuddled a little, she started telling me a secret about her or something and I went straight forward and told her something like "I like the idea of getting to know you, but don't friendzone me" we both laughed and she kinda agreed. Then, when she left she waved to everyone, except me, she kissed me in the cheek. Anyway, the thing is that being as cool as she is she's seeing a few other guys nothing serious. And I'm kinda like that too but I've never been interested in a girl like this before. So I'd like any tips or advice so I won't screw up. Also we're going camping soon... Thanks and excuse my crappy English
Philosoraptor Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 Just be yourself and if she doesn't like you for you then find someone who does. 1
TigerCub Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 Yeah just hang out with her, see how it goes, but if you find that you're doing things (calls, texts, initiating, etc) and she's not reciprocating, then don't push it, don't be clingy and move on. Hopefully it all works out - don't be nervous or intimidated, it'll be fine
Author Theloner91 Posted February 16, 2012 Author Posted February 16, 2012 So far I haven't texted her once, or anything... I guess I'll try to be chill. Anyway, thanks. And any advice is welcome keep'em coming.
veggirl Posted February 16, 2012 Posted February 16, 2012 Why haven't you contacted her? Some other guy she is seeing is probably doing that while you are twiddling your thumbs and not making a move. Why don't you ask her on a ONE ON ONE date???
Author Theloner91 Posted February 16, 2012 Author Posted February 16, 2012 We kept contact, via Facebook and chat. And today I visited a friend we have in common at work and there she was... But she seemed a bit more distant. Anyway a friend of her came by the office (this guy was at the bonfire too) and while we were talking he told me that he thought me and this girl were friends for a long time. He was actually surprised if not baffled when I told him that I met her a week ago. Is that good or bad?
veggirl Posted February 17, 2012 Posted February 17, 2012 We kept contact, via Facebook and chat. And today I visited a friend we have in common at work and there she was... But she seemed a bit more distant. Anyway a friend of her came by the office (this guy was at the bonfire too) and while we were talking he told me that he thought me and this girl were friends for a long time. He was actually surprised if not baffled when I told him that I met her a week ago. Is that good or bad? It's meaningless. He's saying you guys seemed comfortable around each other, I guess. Regardless, it doesn't matter. Are you gonna ask her on a date or orbit around as friends?
Author Theloner91 Posted February 17, 2012 Author Posted February 17, 2012 Oh yeah I forgot to mention we're really alike and I feel super comfortable around her, so I'm always myself. And yeah I will ask her out, sadly she's going to be busy with work til Wednesday but I will ask her before that. I could also use some help on that Oh and thanks for everything btw.
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