Mixed28 Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 I go to a small college 3500 and I constantly worry about not finding love. I will be a soph in the fall. Most people at school are in a relationship. I feel after college it will be much harder to find that special someone. Have not had much luck online. But I feel I need to just relax and not worry about it. Need some input. I am about to turn 20 in September. Link to post Share on other sites
Mag-Lone-Freak Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 It WILL be harder to find someone after college, especially if you're not very social and don't go out hardcore. I would totally take advantage of finding someone now, in a place with a huge variety of people, where surely you'll find someone great for you Link to post Share on other sites
vsmini Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 I really thought this too when I was in college. But it turned out to be a farce. Most of the girls that married their college sweethearts are now divorced (I've only been out of college for 5 years) and the ones that were seriously dating in college are no longer. College is a great time to be in a relationship and learn from people but don't look at it as finding your soulmate. I dated two guys in college and 3 guys since graduation. The relationships since I have been out of college have been 100 times better. We're older, know more about ourselves and for the most part - a lot more mature. Dating in college is such a wreck half the time anyway. Everyone is so young and nobody knows what the f*ck they're doing. Enjoy it and have fun. But don't stress over it. I've found meeting people after college is just as easy and much better. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Mixed28 Posted June 17, 2011 Author Share Posted June 17, 2011 I really thought this too when I was in college. But it turned out to be a farce. Most of the girls that married their college sweethearts are now divorced (I've only been out of college for 5 years) and the ones that were seriously dating in college are no longer. College is a great time to be in a relationship and learn from people but don't look at it as finding your soulmate. I dated two guys in college and 3 guys since graduation. The relationships since I have been out of college have been 100 times better. We're older, know more about ourselves and for the most part - a lot more mature. Dating in college is such a wreck half the time anyway. Everyone is so young and nobody knows what the f*ck they're doing. Enjoy it and have fun. But don't stress over it. I've found meeting people after college is just as easy and much better. Yeah I had my first serious relationship in college and din't know what the hell I was doing. I was to smothering but I learned now. Just seeing all of these couples everywhere sucks. Link to post Share on other sites
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