homerjay Posted May 7, 2010 Share Posted May 7, 2010 Ok, so I've been on a couple dates with this girl and they've gone very well. At the end of the second date I told her I'd like to see her again. We haven't spoken much (a couple texts here and there) for a few days after the second date because she's been dealing with some personal issues so I've kept some distance so she can do her thing. I called her the next week and left a message - she replied by texting me back (which is totally fine by me) and I replied with "I'd like see you again if you want to." She said she would keep me updated. So I left it at that. A few days later I got a text saying she was sorry she hadn't been in contact and after a couple exchanges I wrote "I know you've got a lot going on but let me know if you want to get together...I'd like to see you again." I feel like I maybe have told her too many times I want to see her again and it's got me anxious that I'm sounding too pushy. I like this girl and don't want to f**k this up. Does that sound like I'm being annoying or needy or am I completely overthinking this? Any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted May 7, 2010 Share Posted May 7, 2010 You need to call her and ask her out for a specific day, time, and activity. A date is a great way to leave "personal issues" behind for a while and just have a good time. Link to post Share on other sites
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