youngbuckkk Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 Where are the best places to meet older (30-40) women? I am only 21 and have never been with an older woman, so I really don't know what are the best places to find them. Also, what are the best ways to pursue and get them interested? I know some older women like going with younger men to feel young again, so I guess i'm looking for some good lines or conversation starters Link to post Share on other sites
Lizzie60 Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 They are everywhere.. just like the younger ones.. stores, restaurants, public transit, parks, dating sites (Internet)... You approach them the same way you'd approach a younger girl.. Link to post Share on other sites
Covonia Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 I find older women to have all the things I want in a woman, and I would love to date someone in their early twenties, as I'm in my late teens, but I'm not sure I'd feel comfortable with the age gap to be quite frank. I know it sound's shallow and it probably is, but there's just something that attracts me to older women, I think it's the life experience they have, experience in a lot of other things, too. Girls my age for the most part are very immature, don't know where they are going or what they want to do and don't have a clue about how the world works and have no stories to tell, well ones worth hearing. You can meet them anywhere, bar's, club's, shop's, park's, even on holiday. Link to post Share on other sites
Author youngbuckkk Posted March 24, 2008 Author Share Posted March 24, 2008 I find older women to have all the things I want in a woman, and I would love to date someone in their early twenties, as I'm in my late teens, but I'm not sure I'd feel comfortable with the age gap to be quite frank. I know it sound's shallow and it probably is, but there's just something that attracts me to older women, I think it's the life experience they have, experience in a lot of other things, too. Girls my age for the most part are very immature, don't know where they are going or what they want to do and don't have a clue about how the world works and have no stories to tell, well ones worth hearing. You can meet them anywhere, bar's, club's, shop's, park's, even on holiday. I totally agree with your reasons. I feel like girls my age just wanna play games and be pampered for their time. Older women are finacially indepent so they aren't looking for handouts, well at least they wouldn't with me cuz they would see i'm young and not exactly rich lol. I also like how they would definetly be more comfortable with themselves and with seeing sex as a pleasurable thing with no strings attached. Now not all young girls are the opposite, but for the most part they often don't see sex as simply an enjoyable act, but rather more of an emotional thing in which they are giving up what's theirs, instead of just having fun. Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 I totally agree with your reasons. I feel like girls my age just wanna play games and be pampered for their time. Older women are finacially indepent so they aren't looking for handouts, well at least they wouldn't with me cuz they would see i'm young and not exactly rich lol. I also like how they would definetly be more comfortable with themselves and with seeing sex as a pleasurable thing with no strings attached. Now not all young girls are the opposite, but for the most part they often don't see sex as simply an enjoyable act, but rather more of an emotional thing in which they are giving up what's theirs, instead of just having fun. So you're not looking to date an older woman, you're looking to bang an older woman? Just because a woman is older doesn't mean they want a no strings attatched sexual relationship...... Link to post Share on other sites
Saxis Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 ...I would love to date someone in their early twenties, as I'm in my late teens, but I'm not sure I'd feel comfortable with the age gap to be quite frank. I wouldn't even call that a gap. I'm 26, and I wouldn't think twice about going 5 years on either side of my age (for relationship material). I have trouble getting women my age interested though. Most people think I look like I'm 18, and then say I have the mentality/personality of a 35 year old after they get to know me. So I attract the younguns (15-19), and I can't stand them. You can find people of all ages everywhere, but if you're looking for sex, I'd try the bars. Link to post Share on other sites
Author youngbuckkk Posted March 24, 2008 Author Share Posted March 24, 2008 So you're not looking to date an older woman, you're looking to bang an older woman? Just because a woman is older doesn't mean they want a no strings attatched sexual relationship...... Don't get so offended. I'm not looking to date, i'm looking to go out and have a good time, and there is nothing wrong with casual sex for fun in my book. I'm not saying all older women are into NSA sex, I just think that for the most part many would be more comfortable with sex as a pleasurable act instead of an emotional attachment. It seems the majority of younger women put too much into what sex is. Maybe i've just been meeting the wrong ones lol. Link to post Share on other sites
Author youngbuckkk Posted March 24, 2008 Author Share Posted March 24, 2008 I wouldn't even call that a gap. I'm 26, and I wouldn't think twice about going 5 years on either side of my age (for relationship material). I have trouble getting women my age interested though. Most people think I look like I'm 18, . I know the feeling man, i'm 21 and I look like i'm 16. Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 Don't get so offended. I'm not looking to date, i'm looking to go out and have a good time, and there is nothing wrong with casual sex for fun in my book. I'm not saying all older women are into NSA sex, I just think that for the most part many would be more comfortable with sex as a pleasurable act instead of an emotional attachment. It seems the majority of younger women put too much into what sex is. Maybe i've just been meeting the wrong ones lol. Well, it takes practice. Lots and lots of practice! I'd suggest you start at the higher end of your age range and work your way down once you have things figured out. So... go find a retirement home and start working your Mojo! I'd bet that in no time flat you will be ready to score with the soccer moms! Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 Well, it takes practice. Lots and lots of practice! I'd suggest you start at the higher end of your age range and work your way down once you have things figured out. So... go find a retirement home and start working your Mojo! I'd bet that in no time flat you will be ready to score with the soccer moms! :lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao: I bet those ladies in the retirement home are ready for a good fwb relationship Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 :lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao::lmao: I bet those ladies in the retirement home are ready for a good fwb relationship Especially the long time widowers! I'm sure they would be more than happy to have a Youngbuckk around! Link to post Share on other sites
dreamergrl Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 Especially the long time widowers! I'm sure they would be more than happy to have a Youngbuckk around! Yeah, I bet those men in the home just can't kick it like a youngbukkk Plus, they don't have to worry about him needing viagra! Now those soccer mom's might be a little harder to please Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 Picking up older women is basically the same as younger women except older women tend to be more straightforward. Just find bars that tend to have an older crowd. Laid back places are more likely to have an older crowd than high energy clubs, for obvious reasons. Link to post Share on other sites
Legend Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 The key is to be in your early twenties, date a woman in their thirties, then when you're like late twenties or early thirties date a young girl in her early 20s the cycle of life Link to post Share on other sites
Covonia Posted March 24, 2008 Share Posted March 24, 2008 I totally agree with your reasons. I feel like girls my age just wanna play games and be pampered for their time. Older women are finacially indepent so they aren't looking for handouts, well at least they wouldn't with me cuz they would see i'm young and not exactly rich lol. I also like how they would definetly be more comfortable with themselves and with seeing sex as a pleasurable thing with no strings attached. Now not all young girls are the opposite, but for the most part they often don't see sex as simply an enjoyable act, but rather more of an emotional thing in which they are giving up what's theirs, instead of just having fun. I agree with the first part of your post, but not the latter part of it. Sex can be enjoyable, hell it is why else do you orgasm? However to me personally (no I'm not a loser, with acne who is a recluse and locks himself away in a basement playing video games all day) sex is both an enjoyable act and also an emotional act, sex in a committed relationship is worth far more to me, then sex with a random girl who I'll probably never see again. That's why I do not participate in the trend of sleeping around with people. I'm attracted to older women, because the ones I've met and spoken to are more mature, have their held screwed on and know what they want, they're also independent, but I can't be stereotypical, I've met some girls younger than me and the same age who are more mature and stable than some of the older women I've met. But generally they have the qualities I want in a woman. I wouldn't even call that a gap. I'm 26, and I wouldn't think twice about going 5 years on either side of my age (for relationship material). I have trouble getting women my age interested though. Most people think I look like I'm 18, and then say I have the mentality/personality of a 35 year old after they get to know me. So I attract the younguns (15-19), and I can't stand them. You can find people of all ages everywhere, but if you're looking for sex, I'd try the bars. You're at the perfect age, 21 is a good and 31 is good also, you have the best of both worlds, it depends on what you're looking for. I'm 19, if I'm seen out with a twenty four year old, it's hardly gonna be considered normal and if I'm seen out with a 17 year old, then I'm cutting it fine in some people's eyes. Just for the record, I'll happily date a 24 year old, just not a 17 year old, too young. As for my age range, take your pick, I've been told I have youthful skin - ages from 12 to 17, with the odd, you look the same age as you are. Link to post Share on other sites
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