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Am I selfish, or is he selfish?


lalaland80

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I'm dating this great guy, though one problem, he's fairly cheap. We've been going out for almost 8 months, I'm going to move in with him fairly soon, though I'm getting concerned already about the finances. I'm a student and make about 1/10th of what he makes on a yearly basis, he is rather well off and has a significant amount of savings.

 

He expects things to be 50-50 when it comes to pretty much everything, which leaves me feeling bitter, because he knows my finances and knows how much i sacrifice for the relationship. Not to mention that he has never bought me anything aside from an ill thought out xmas gift, on account of his admitting to his cheapness.

 

Should I cope, and deal with his cheapness due to his other good personality attributes? I'm just worried that I'm going to become even more resentful the more I have to spend money that I don't have.

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