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Have you ever reconciled with a friend after a big betrayal?

How long did it take you to get over it? Was the friendship ever the same or was it a totally new friendship?

 

I lost my best friend of 20 years a few months back. I'm over the betrayal, but I don't know how to trust her again.

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Last year I ended a friendship of 15 years because even though I thought I had gotten past the betrayal I finally had to admit I hadn't. It ate away at me and I was increasingly impatient with her and saw negative motives behind every little thing she did.

 

I finally told her I couldn't continue the friendship when I realized I was incapable of being a real friend to her anymore - it all came down to me having no trust left in her whatsoever.

 

I wish you a better outcome.

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Have you ever reconciled with a friend after a big betrayal?

How long did it take you to get over it? Was the friendship ever the same or was it a totally new friendship?

 

I lost my best friend of 20 years a few months back. I'm over the betrayal, but I don't know how to trust her again.

 

Don't trust her again. Forgive but don't trust. Once they show you who they are realize it.

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