amkxoxo Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 So I met two close friends in college. Since I graduated I have moved home two hours away. They still live in that area and we see each other often.I tend to drive down and visit them. I just went to see them this past weekend as we had planned. Then we plAnned for me to come this upcoming weekend as well. But I just got a job down there and have to move there the weekend after this upcoming one to start working. I kind of don't want to go visit them this upcoming weekend anymore now. I could be spending more time with my family and packing my stuff instead. And since I will be living there I will be able to see them all the time anyway and not my family. I just feel bad because I committed to come this weekend but that is before I got the job. I dont want them to think I am flaking on them because we made this huge sleepover plan but I really don't know if it's smart for me to go this weekend since I'm moving down there the weekend after. I don't know how to tell my friends. Link to post Share on other sites
lyndaaxo Posted October 28, 2014 Share Posted October 28, 2014 Just explain it to them, if they're good friends they'll be supportive. And you can always do something even bigger/better when you move there! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
tobrieornottobrie Posted October 29, 2014 Share Posted October 29, 2014 Maybe if you just explain to them that you are needing to spend some extra time with your family they will understand? That's always a tough call to make, good luck. Congratulations on the new job!! ~ the brie's cheese knees ~ Link to post Share on other sites
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