billie jo Posted October 17, 2013 Share Posted October 17, 2013 I'm in an LDR and I have a friend (I changed her name) we'll call her Marcy. I was having a crisis the other day and I was talking to her on MSN. She just was NOT being understanding about my problems and I don't know what to do!! Any help could be welcomed, I appreciate anything anyone has to offer b/c I really think she's a good person and she is one of my closest friends, I am just at my wits END!! I am just going to copy and paste the conversation we had so you can see just how insensitive she was really being. marcy says: HAAAAY billie jo says: hai marcy says: what's up! billie jo says: men suck boyfriends suck **** this **** **** it all marcy says: oh god what happened ): billie jo says: he went to burger king to get a whopper marcy says: well that's not so bad? billie jo says: IT IS WHEN IT TAKES AN HOUR AND A HALF. marcy says: @_@ billie jo says: You know what you CAN do in an hour and a half? Bang a slut from craiglist is a motel, that's what. marcy says: oh i .. well i doubt he's doing that, did he go with a friend? billie jo says: NOPE. marcy says: i'd be more worried he was in an accident or something, have you been able to get a hold of him? billie jo says: well, i called twelve times, and he didn't answer he's home now he wasn't when i commented on your facebook marcy says: ohhhh :/ what did he say when you asked him? billie jo says: so where else did you go? said nowhere, he got his whopper, cam home, at his good, lounged around, and took a 20-minute ****. marcy says: i've taken 20 minute poops, time runs away when you have a good book or magazine lol billie jo says: he said he would call when he got home that he mind even call while he was out then he can't even answer his phone? marcy says: do you really think he was off sleeping with a CL whore? billie jo says: I don't ****ing know I know it doesn't take an hour and a ****ing half to get a god damn cheeseburger. marcy says: yeah that's pretty excessive what did he say about not calling or answering his phone? billie jo says: that he didn't feel well while he was driving, and that he just didn't hear his phone when I was calling marcy says: and you called 12 times over an hour and a half? @_@ billie jo says: Nope. Back to back, when I got tired of sitting here wondering what he was really doing. marcy says: :I what did he say about all your missed calls? billie jo says: that he must have been in the other room and didn't hear the phone marcy says: hmm is he acting weird? billie jo says: Just sick, like he has been acting the last two days. marcy says: man idk the doubt would be eating me up, the lack of trust billie jo says: I think that's what I'm most upset about, actually. marcy says: that you feel like you have to flip out because you can't trust him to not cheat on you? and that when he goes out you're a mess, especially if he doesn't call you? billie jo says: yes. marcy says: well that's hard to get over, but i really think you're either going to have to try your darndest to get over it, or your relationship will fail :/ i think those are the only two options you have, and it is easier said than done, i know. ): i mean, you're totally justified in making him check in and ****, i would probably be the same exact way but i am afraid all this doubt and turmoil is going to end up killing your relationship Sorry about my cursing and typos, I was really upset as you can understand. She was telling me that I needed to GET OVER IT. I was so mad! Sometimes I really feel like she is sticking up for my BF when I feel like my doubts are COMPLETELY JUSTIFIED. IDK. Advice would be good. I need friends that can understand where I am coming from. Link to post Share on other sites
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