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So I don't really know what's going on with my best girl friend. It started out a few months ago when she broke up with her boyfriend completely out of the blue. They were together for a few years, and she always talked about marrying him. They had a really strong relationship and he was always there for her, a genuine nice guy, so when they broke up I was really confused. He was really hurt by it because according to him she just blindsided him and told him she wasn't happy being with him and left him for some other guy. This new guy isn't nearly as attractive or intelligent and seems like a bit of a loser, but apparently they are madly inlove. I thought at first my friend was just rebounding, but then I heard within the first week of her new relationship her and her new guy were planning on getting married. She now is really close with this guys family, and they all spam on eachothers facebook walls about how much they love eachother and they are meant to be with eachother.

 

I backed off a bit thinking its just a phase or something, but shes now been with this guy for 3 or 4 months. I heard a month ago that she is now apparently enlisting in the navy with him and they are moving away together and getting married. This girl is FAR from the military type to begin with. I tried talking to her to understand why she was doing this, and why she even broke up with her previous boyfriend in the first place, but none of it was even logical thinking or made any sense. She got mad at me and blocked me from everything, hasn't talked to me since, but im really worried about her. We are after all only 20, and I don't want her to make a huge mistake.

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She's not been very friendly to you, has she? Blocking you, getting angry, not talking to you. That's what she decided to do to you. How does that make you feel?

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She's not been very friendly to you, has she? Blocking you, getting angry, not talking to you. That's what she decided to do to you. How does that make you feel?

 

 

I don't really know what to think of it. It's like now that she's with this new guy she is a completely different person. When she was with her old boyfriend she seemed very easy going and happy, now she just seems aggressive and very open about her new relationship, almost trying to show it off. I knew she loved the idea about getting married, but that's a huge commitment and you really have to know the person. I don't get very good vibes from this new guy either, and she never really gave a solid reason as to why she left her ex. I'm just concerned, its like she hasn't reflected on her life at all since the break up and not even regarding consequences.

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This has happened to me with a dear friend and there is nothing you can do. When someone falls in love they love that person with blinders on. You can't make her see anything she doesn't want to, not just from you but also family. They don't want to hear it. Even if he is cheating they don't want to hear it. You just have to hope she will open her eyes sooner rather than later. It's a great career the navy but it's out of character for her. She needs to be loved or she feels like she is invisible. Be happy that she is starting a new life and wish her well. If the day comes and It might... she will pick up a phone and call you after h's dumped her. They usually do and need to vent to a old friend. You can listen or hang up. It has nothing at all to do with you. Just pray for her and wish her well.

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I don't really know what to think of it. It's like now that she's with this new guy she is a completely different person. When she was with her old boyfriend she seemed very easy going and happy, now she just seems aggressive and very open about her new relationship, almost trying to show it off. I knew she loved the idea about getting married, but that's a huge commitment and you really have to know the person. I don't get very good vibes from this new guy either, and she never really gave a solid reason as to why she left her ex. I'm just concerned, its like she hasn't reflected on her life at all since the break up and not even regarding consequences.

 

Well, since she's told you to f*ck off I suggest you react to that and stop worrying about someone who doesn't like you. We all make our own decisions and try to find happiness in our own ways.

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In this situation your character would probably start to act paranoid Clinically, paranoia is chronic suspicion and mistat something bad will happen or that others want to hurt or mistreat the personof one's fears about oneself onto others, That means that your character will believe others think whatever he is most afraid is true. The more afraid he is that he's losing his mind, the more convinced he'll be that others think he's crazy.

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