Montgomery Burns Posted April 19, 2016 Share Posted April 19, 2016 I have posted about this coworker in the past in another forum but this question applies to us professionally. He is married and I do find him very attractive. Nothing has been said or done that is completely unprofessional. I take much of his behavior as friendly but some has been in my opinion flirtatious. Things like: Staring at me from across a large building Asking me to come talk to him Lots and lots of lingering eye contact Smiling and being silly with me all the time Giving me nicknames Telling and Asking me about the weekend He remember s everything about me and asks lots about my life Telling me about everything So flirting right? Well I keep my distance, and yesterday while I was talking to someone he came and took a picture of me. Just me. 2nd time this has happened. He just laughs afterwards and I go about my business. I think the picture was a bit too much. I can't think of a reason why it would be friendly in nature. Before I address this with him, I want to make sure I am not misreading this. Link to post Share on other sites
acrosstheuniverse Posted April 19, 2016 Share Posted April 19, 2016 No, you are not misunderstanding this, that's totally outta line. I'd go to his supervisor with that behaviour. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Montgomery Burns Posted April 19, 2016 Author Share Posted April 19, 2016 I was hoping to avoid a potential issue with HR. But that makes sense. He probably would take my requests the wrong way. Thank You. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Montgomery Burns Posted April 21, 2016 Author Share Posted April 21, 2016 I escalated today. Feel so terrible for doing so. I hope everything goes well. Link to post Share on other sites
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