hereforfun2 Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 My g/f and I were discussing sex the other day and she feels that oral should count as sex with us, where I disagree. I say intercourse is sex. I understand where she is coming from, oral sex is still a type of sex but I look as oral as a bonus. So just kinda curious what everyone else thinks. Link to post Share on other sites
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 Your name wouldn't be Bill Clinton, would it? Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 What difference does it make in your relationship? Is there a specific reason this came up? Link to post Share on other sites
Author hereforfun2 Posted October 9, 2005 Author Share Posted October 9, 2005 i know most guys would take oral over intercourse but I look at it as being more intimate with her. It doesn't make a difference in our relationship just a discussion we were having. She does everything I want sexually and I do the same for her. We were just chatting about it and I just want to know what everyone thinks Link to post Share on other sites
933KJL Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 I vote that oral sex is sex. Although I think that definition has been changed by the current generation of teens. In my day (do I sound really old now) oral sex typically was done after (not immediately but you get the drift) intercourse as it was seen as more intimate for couples. Today, I think it is perceived as a solution to safe sex and as a way to maintain one's technical virginity. I have heard that many will engage in that and consider it "heavy petting" or "making out". I imagine it is also a way to keep the raging hormones of boys at bay. Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 no way oral is sex. It's the appetizer. What comes after is the main dish. Link to post Share on other sites
933KJL Posted October 9, 2005 Share Posted October 9, 2005 How old are you? I am betting that you are under 25. I guess that is around the age where people differ on opinions. Link to post Share on other sites
Juliet Posted October 10, 2005 Share Posted October 10, 2005 :love: :love: :love: :love: :love: I Lop O Vop E Yop O U. I will tell you what that means later. ~Juliet @->- Link to post Share on other sites
JayKay Posted October 10, 2005 Share Posted October 10, 2005 I think oral sex is sex. Just my 2 cents Link to post Share on other sites
elijahBailey Posted October 10, 2005 Share Posted October 10, 2005 I think oral sex is sex. Just my 2 cents 4 cents says it's pseudo Link to post Share on other sites
slubberdegullion Posted October 10, 2005 Share Posted October 10, 2005 Of COURSE oral-genital contact is sex. To think otherwise is delusional. (jen_jen_heartbroken: love your post!) Link to post Share on other sites
Leikela Posted October 11, 2005 Share Posted October 11, 2005 Folks, it's not called oral SEX for nothing. It was named with SEX in mind. You can still get STD's from oral sex because you're still exchanging bodily fluids. I think that's why it's considered sex. Also, if someone has a cold sore on their mouth and you kiss them and then give them oral sex you can give them genital herpes! So think again when you write off oral sex. It has it's consequences too. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted October 11, 2005 Share Posted October 11, 2005 It's still part of the sex family...Oral sex, sex sex, anal sex, finger sex, mouth sex, whatever. It's SEX. Link to post Share on other sites
RecordProducer Posted October 11, 2005 Share Posted October 11, 2005 If this is one of those "She just gave me oral (or vice versa), NOT INTERCOURSE so it's not cheating!" then forget it! It's cheating. Link to post Share on other sites
Razorback05 Posted October 11, 2005 Share Posted October 11, 2005 Oral sex certainly isn't abstinence. Doesn't that alone fulfil the criteria for indirect proof that oral sex IS sex? Hmm. Maybe some clinical studies are in order. Link to post Share on other sites
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