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Old 9th March 2019, 10:51 PM   #1
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Angry From 5 girls to zero!

so after dating 5 girls and finding flaws I finally ended up single again!

The first one wore purple pants and cowboy boots so that fell apart. I didnít want to lead her on so we just slept together and I let it go

The second one was a make up artist and same thing we slept together and she wanted commitment so I left

The third one I met online and had a kid so that was a deal breaker for me since Iím not in the mind set to help raise or be there for a child

The fourth one is phenomenal and Iíd even consider a long term relationship but she doesnít want kids and I want at least one so that was the break

The fifth one was a project and I didnít want her at first but she reeled me in and she broke things off because we were friends with benefits and while things were progressing but she went back to a guy who wanted to sleep with her and left her so now sheís heartbroken and confused about me and her

The last one hurt because she really went against everything I believe I donít want in a partner but sure enough now Iím here

It was all fun while it lasted but it was just fun and I really did have good intentions which is why I didnít lead them on but yeah it still didnít work

So just wanted to vent
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Old 9th March 2019, 10:55 PM   #2
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Chin up. It's not like you lost anyone who you were truly interested in.
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Old 9th March 2019, 11:40 PM   #3
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The first one wore purple pants and cowboy boots so that fell apart. I didn’t want to lead her on so we just slept together and I let it go
This just cracked me up tonight... Sadly, you have to kiss a lot of girls who wear purple pants and cowboy boots before you find “the one...”

Good luck with your search.
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Old 10th March 2019, 3:52 AM   #4
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Chin up. It's not like you lost anyone who you were truly interested in.

Thank you basil but that last one really got me thinking about the future... she talked about getting pregnant and moving in and I guess I kind of bought it for a bit
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Old 10th March 2019, 3:53 AM   #5
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This just cracked me up tonight... Sadly, you have to kiss a lot of girls who wear purple pants and cowboy boots before you find ďthe one...Ē

Good luck with your search.


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Old 11th March 2019, 7:42 AM   #6
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I'd contact number 4 again
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Old 11th March 2019, 1:43 PM   #7
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I really did have good intentions which is why I didnít lead them
Having slept with most or all of them, would they agree with this assessment?

Like Bailey, I'm curious how you broke the news to Ms. Purple Pants...

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Iím not in the mind set to help raise or be there for a child

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but she doesnít want kids and I want at least one so that was the break

Ummm, how does this even work??? You know you have to raise and be there for a kid that you have, right....?
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Old 11th March 2019, 8:36 PM   #9
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I'd contact number 4 again


I did and we hung out but she wonít change her view on having a child plus now she found a guy who also doesnít want kids so I wished her luck

She said we could work but I wonít get a child so yeah I passed
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Old 11th March 2019, 8:37 PM   #10
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Having slept with most or all of them, would they agree with this assessment?

Like Bailey, I'm curious how you broke the news to Ms. Purple Pants...

Mr. Lucky


She became very very controlling so I was already into number 5 so I just slowly faded and I text her but she ignored me lol

Sheís still upset but no contact since February
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Ummm, how does this even work??? You know you have to raise and be there for a kid that you have, right....?


I meant raise a child that isnít mine

If I had my child of course I would put in 110%
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