Bent2 Posted May 19, 2018 Share Posted May 19, 2018 What is the absolute worst thing your partner could do to you? What would be unforgivable? Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted May 19, 2018 Share Posted May 19, 2018 Cheat / break our marital vows. Why? Link to post Share on other sites
somanymistakes Posted May 19, 2018 Share Posted May 19, 2018 Physically attack me or someone else. Go directly to jail do not collect $200. Link to post Share on other sites
Prudence V Posted May 19, 2018 Share Posted May 19, 2018 What is the absolute worst thing your partner could do to you? What would be unforgivable? Could do to me, or could do, IMV? Could do to me - throw acid in my face. Could do, IMV - become a racist. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted May 19, 2018 Share Posted May 19, 2018 1. Physical abuse 2. Verbal abuse 3. Cheating All dealbreakers. Ain't no one got time for that. And no one should have kids around it. Link to post Share on other sites
ItsJustMyOpinion Posted May 22, 2018 Share Posted May 22, 2018 The absolute worst thing? I can think of many, but I assume cheating / humiliation with said cheating is damn close! Link to post Share on other sites
JDJ Posted May 23, 2018 Share Posted May 23, 2018 I'm a guy, and I have an answer that I think will be a bit controversial, but my experiences have told me this is so. I think that the worst thing a guy can do in a relationship with a woman is to bore her. I have seen women put up with pretty much everything else from cheating, abuse, being convinced to enter an open relationship, you name it. Bore a girl and she will be gone pretty fast. Obviously, I think cheating on your woman or being abusive is worse than just boring her, but when it comes to relationship longevity, you do not want a bored woman. I agree with this! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
CrazyKatLady Posted May 24, 2018 Share Posted May 24, 2018 true...i was just reflecting on how bored with the last guy I was...his need to be cool and over the top sexually and put me in my place (i.e. telling me it wasn't a relationship, getting rough, and blah, blah, blah) was totally a bit abusive, but more than that, it was b-o-r-i-n-g...after the first day...youare absolutely right, my friend, I hate to say it...but it is what it is...at least, it was for me at that point in my life...I doubt anyone else will get those chances again, so hopefully the next one is a naturally exciting and happy person. I like happy people. Link to post Share on other sites
Imajerk17 Posted May 24, 2018 Share Posted May 24, 2018 I'm a guy, and I have an answer that I think will be a bit controversial, but my experiences have told me this is so. I think that the worst thing a guy can do in a relationship with a woman is to bore her. I have seen women put up with pretty much everything else from cheating, abuse, being convinced to enter an open relationship, you name it. Bore a girl and she will be gone pretty fast. Obviously, I think cheating on your woman or being abusive is worse than just boring her, but when it comes to relationship longevity, you do not want a bored woman. This. Or, just as bad, apologize too much/stop leading/look to her too much for approval and give away his power! Abdicating the masculine role in a relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
somanymistakes Posted May 24, 2018 Share Posted May 24, 2018 I'm reminded of the whole quote about "Men are afraid women will laugh at them. Women are afraid men will kill them." ... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
guest569 Posted May 25, 2018 Share Posted May 25, 2018 Yeah, abuse. Link to post Share on other sites
mrs rubble Posted May 26, 2018 Share Posted May 26, 2018 1) Cheating. 2) Abuse of any sort (towards me or others.) 3) Drug abuse. Link to post Share on other sites
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