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Old 3rd February 2018, 11:57 PM   #1
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Does she like me?

First off, i'm new to the forums. And also, dating has never been a strong point. Ever. I'm not scared to admit that i'm 32 and never had a girlfriend in my life. I've never had any luck. I've lost count how many times I've been turned down, but it's up there.

But enough about that. Onto the question I have. Does she like me? I'm constantly going to this girls workplace, as I work for a dealership as i'm a lot manager as I make sure we have fuel in our vehicles, so customers can test drive them. She has worked at this gas station since Sept of 2017, so we have talked here and there whenever I come in. But in the last month or so every time, I walk into the gas station, doesn't matter if there is a full line of customers or not, she always stops what shes doing and yells hello across the store with a massive smile on her face while waving. Even when dealing with a customer, she does this. Every time. Like on Wednesday night, it was a slow night there and I stayed for about 15 mins talking with her. Whenever I talked, she would put her elbows on the counter with her head in her hands and just stare at me intensely. Then whenever she was talking, she would start twirling her hair with her finger. She would laugh at majority of the things I said, even if they weren't funny. But what I really notice when shes staring at me or twirling her hair, I can see a twinkle in her eye and she blushes a bit. She also tells me the days she works and wants me to come and see her.

As I said, dating isn't my strong point. I'm clueless majority of the time.

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Old 4th February 2018, 2:26 AM   #2
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But enough about that. Onto the question I have. Does she like me? I'm constantly going to this girls workplace, as I work for a dealership as i'm a lot manager as I make sure we have fuel in our vehicles, so customers can test drive them. She has worked at this gas station since Sept of 2017, so we have talked here and there whenever I come in. But in the last month or so every time, I walk into the gas station, doesn't matter if there is a full line of customers or not, she always stops what shes doing and yells hello across the store with a massive smile on her face while waving. Even when dealing with a customer, she does this. Every time. Like on Wednesday night, it was a slow night there and I stayed for about 15 mins talking with her. Whenever I talked, she would put her elbows on the counter with her head in her hands and just stare at me intensely. Then whenever she was talking, she would start twirling her hair with her finger. She would laugh at majority of the things I said, even if they weren't funny. But what I really notice when shes staring at me or twirling her hair, I can see a twinkle in her eye and she blushes a bit. She also tells me the days she works and wants me to come and see her.
No idea if she likes you but it sure seems she'd like to get to know you.

All it would take is a simple - "Like to grab a cup of coffee on ----- after you get off work? I'd love to talk to you when you're not behind the counter" - to find out.

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Does she like me?
Don't ask us, ask her...

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Old 4th February 2018, 8:12 AM   #3
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[] Okay, you admit to being or claim you are clueless. Listen to Mr Lucky and me - go for it and good luck!

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Old 4th February 2018, 11:02 AM   #4
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She is showing signs that she wants to go out on a date
with you. So ask her out.
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Old 4th February 2018, 11:03 AM   #5
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You work around salesmen. The successful ones can & do talk to anybody & everybody. They are masters at reading body language. Ask some of them for dating tips. Invite one or two out for drinks after work & watch them operate. Emulate some of that behavior.

As for this lady, next time you get gas, ask her what time she gets off & if she'd like to grab a cup of coffee with you after work. Very simple. Low key. It's an ask but not an over the top one; even if she says no you can still get gas there.
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Old 4th February 2018, 5:46 PM   #6
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[] Okay, you admit to being or claim you are clueless. Listen to Mr Lucky and me - go for it and good luck!
[Y]es, I'm clueless when it comes to this stuff.

And for Mr Lucky, I did listen to him. I actually went to see her at work this morning. And she admitted she liked me but won't go on a date with me. Her excuse is my car is too fancy for her. I drive a 15 Subaru WRX STi.

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Then she's a twit. Women should not date or exclude men based on the car they drive. That is trivial.

Turn it around on her. Suggest that she pick you up in her car.
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She doesn't drive.

But she did take a few secs to think of that excuse, so its possible it was just something to say. I'm used to excuses like this. I've probably heard them all.

But this is probably the best one yet. This happened back in December. This girl made a date for us to meet at a coffee shop. But 3 hours before we were suppose to meet, she msgs me saying she isn't feeling too and wanted to schedule a different day. So we did. But my gut, had this feeling and I said to myself, i'm gonna do down to that coffee shop anyways since i've wanted to go there. So I went there at the time we decided on, and 15 mins later she walks in with a different guy. I walked up to her and asked how she was feeling. She turned around and gave me the OMG look. The guy asked what happened and I told him. Then me and that guy started chatting and found out we are both in to RC cars. So we both left and left that girl in massive shock like she didn't know what just happened.

I just have no luck with this stuff.

Oh well, guess i'll just spend my money on my car instead.
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Old 5th February 2018, 12:14 AM   #9
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I didn't even read your post. Just the title. You asked does she like me? The answer is no she doesn't. It's just like sex. If you have to ask, the answer is no.
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Old 5th February 2018, 12:57 AM   #10
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[Y]es, I'm clueless when it comes to this stuff.

And for Mr Lucky, I did listen to him. I actually went to see her at work this morning. And she admitted she liked me but won't go on a date with me. Her excuse is my car is too fancy for her. I drive a 15 Subaru WRX STi.
What the hell?!

she gave all these signals and she even admitted she likes you, but then gave you this excuse not to date you?

I don't understand. it's so brain f..ed. what's with these women? as a woman, I don't understand at all. maybe that's why I failed?

but anyway, you don't need these women and games anyway.

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I just have no luck with this stuff.

Oh well, guess i'll just spend my money on my car instead.
or spend money on prostitutes...save time and energy and from brain f...ed.
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OMG. That coffee shop story is awful. Where do you get these women?

Go back to my original suggestion. Spend some time hanging out with the salesmen at your dealership. Watch & observe. Then emulate some of what they do.
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or spend money on prostitutes...save time and energy and from brain f...ed.
I've thought of that idea but I don't want my first time to go down that route.
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OMG. That coffee shop story is awful. Where do you get these women?

Go back to my original suggestion. Spend some time hanging out with the salesmen at your dealership. Watch & observe. Then emulate some of what they do.
Trust me, I have no idea. I've lived in 5 different cities past 5 years and it's the samething over and over.

One of the salesmen I work with, he has a different woman every night. I follow he lead and still doesn't work. He's even had a few of them try to hook up with me and they turned me down. I'll admit, I'm not best looking guy out there but I'm not hard on the eyes either. I don't know. Maybe I'm missing something here.
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Old 5th February 2018, 2:36 PM   #15
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T Maybe I'm missing something here.
It's not what you're missing, it's something you have - the scent of desperation.

You mentioned an interest in RC cars, I'll bet you have some connection to other tech hobbies and fields. Better to find groups with similar interests and use some of the "sales" techniques there - eye contact, listen intently, observe body language, etc. Keep at it without sex as a goal and you'll find a connection...

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