Don't Let A Woman Be Sure That You Like Her

[arnold90]

I do believe that giving out mixed signals does serve a purpose of keeping a woman on her toes and not allowing her to have 100% assurance that I like her. I believe that men have to always act in a way to keep women in doubt about his interest in her. Once a woman is 100% assured that I like her then she will tend to relax and take advantage of that and become complacent.

 

I tend to blow hot and cold with the women I like because I want to appear unpredictable. I don't want her to accurately predict what my next move is going to be. For example if I offer to buy a woman a drink and she accepts and then after we talk for 1/2 an hour she offers to buy the next round of drinks as a way to return my interest then I won't accept her offer. I will say no thank you and then end the conversation and walk away.

 

That's just one example of how blowing hot and cold keeps me unpredictable. I want her to think about why I didn't accept her offer for the drink after I bought her one.

 

Another example might be where we go out on a date and we appear to have a good time. At the end of the date she invites me into her house and I purposely decline going into the house with some excuse about how it is getting late and I get up early for work tomorrow.

 

Also when the conversations are at their peak and she is laughing that's the best time to end the conversation. I don't want to risk the possibility of overstaying my welcome.

 

There's other ways to mix hot and cold actions to keep someone on their toes. What are your ideas?

[autumnnight]

Yes, by all means do this if you are 13 and have penis insecurities.

 

Otherwise be a man.

[d0nnivain]

It's one thing to proceed cautiously & always leave them wanting more. It's another thing entirely to play games. Unfortunately you seem to want to engage in the latter. Game playing is mean & unhealthy. You wanna play, fine breakout the X-Box or the Monopoly board. Otherwise be straight with people.