kirsty44 Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 i need help,4 weeks ago i found out my partner of 10 years was on a website looking to pay for sex and other things,he meet a couple of people,and now i really do not know what to do with him,he has cheated on me a couple of times now.Any help would be really gratefull thanks x Link to post Share on other sites
TigerCub Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 I'm sorry, I don't get your question. Are you asking if your boyfriend's paying for sex is cheating? the answer to that is - YEAH You say that he's cheated on you before - for that I'm sorry, but if you put up with it and there are no consequences, why would he stop? I'm really sorry for your pain. Link to post Share on other sites
CarrieT Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 Yep, that is cheating... What to do? What do you want to do? First off, get checked for STDs because if he met people, he was probably having unprotected sex and you could be at risk. Then decide if you want to stay in a relationship with someone that would jeopardize your health in that fashion. Link to post Share on other sites
mike111 Posted October 14, 2011 Share Posted October 14, 2011 Yep, that is cheating... What to do? What do you want to do? First off, get checked for STDs because if he met people, he was probably having unprotected sex and you could be at risk. Then decide if you want to stay in a relationship with someone that would jeopardize your health in that fashion. Excellent points. Remember Tiger Woods and his 18 porn star girl friends? I could just imagine what Tiger's wife went through wondering if she had contracted any sicknesses from these whores. After my horrible relationship was over about 10 years ago, I went and got tested for everything under the sun. Thank god I came out clean. mike Link to post Share on other sites
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