Laura Posted January 26, 2000 Share Posted January 26, 2000 Ok heres the Thing Theres this new guy at school who i like and I know He likes me back Cause he writes me all the time and says hi to me in the hallway all the time Anyway we hang out alot and stuff the prolim Is some of the people he sits w/ on the bus!! They hate me and there considered sluts they sit beside him and bug him he says he doesn't want to tell the m Off or anything cause he's new here and that would be bad to start out w/ a rep like that and I mean I agree but they tell him Reall alfull things about me and I don't know what to DO!!!!! If anyone has any advice please Tell me I really like him!! Thanks Laura Link to post Share on other sites
Annie Posted January 27, 2000 Share Posted January 27, 2000 When UR talking to him next time - tell him how you feel - tell him ir makes you really uncomfortable and let's see what he's made of. If he submits to the peer pressure of sitting with the 'cool kids' at the expense of your feelings - then you need to realise that this relationship is not a relationship - it can only be a friendship- until he gets his act together. Take a book and read on the bus - sit far away - get a ride home with someone else - catch a leter bus if you can - remove yourself from the crappy scene and see if he notices. Good luck! Ok heres the Thing Theres this new guy at school who i like and I know He likes me back Cause he writes me all the time and says hi to me in the hallway all the time Anyway we hang out alot and stuff the prolim Is some of the people he sits w/ on the bus!! They hate me and there considered sluts they sit beside him and bug him he says he doesn't want to tell the m Off or anything cause he's new here and that would be bad to start out w/ a rep like that and I mean I agree but they tell him Reall alfull things about me and I don't know what to DO!!!!! If anyone has any advice please Tell me I really like him!! Thanks Laura Link to post Share on other sites
james Posted January 27, 2000 Share Posted January 27, 2000 laura.... please believe me when i tell you this... remain his friend.... don't push any thing... do "not"talk bad about those girls to him or any one else... and most of all be patient... the truth will always prevail.... Ok heres the Thing Theres this new guy at school who i like and I know He likes me back Cause he writes me all the time and says hi to me in the hallway all the time Anyway we hang out alot and stuff the prolim Is some of the people he sits w/ on the bus!! They hate me and there considered sluts they sit beside him and bug him he says he doesn't want to tell the m Off or anything cause he's new here and that would be bad to start out w/ a rep like that and I mean I agree but they tell him Reall alfull things about me and I don't know what to DO!!!!! If anyone has any advice please Tell me I really like him!! Thanks Laura Link to post Share on other sites
Meta Posted January 30, 2000 Share Posted January 30, 2000 I agree with James, DO NOT PUSH OR SAY ANYTHING ABOUT THE GIRLS!!! Just ignore them and have fun with the guy...if what you said is true, he'll be the one seeking you, right? And if he falls for those girls and ignores you, then he's a loser. I understand that you feel impatient, but wait and see what happens...how he behaves will make you decide whether YOU want to be with him or not. It's your choice, not his. Link to post Share on other sites
Laura Posted January 30, 2000 Share Posted January 30, 2000 Ok thanks for all the advice now I need more He has decided to hang out w/ me more then them ok But I can't keep from flirting!! He has a girl friend back in New Orleans were he moved here from and she keeps holding on and I feel guilty that I flirt Were going to Spend an Entire day together just us What do I do?? I mean I like him Like a friend but I feel Another Attraction and I can't stop from Flirting!! Link to post Share on other sites
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