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Old 10th November 2018, 7:27 AM   #1
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ex and buying a new ring

Has anyone had good relationship with your spouse and you wanted to get back with them that you bought a new engagement ring or wedding ring? I am thinking about buying a new engagement ring next yr depending on how the relationship is then
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Old 10th November 2018, 8:30 AM   #2
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I've never been married, but was engaged once.

When she broke it off, she returned the ring. My plan was to have the diamond reset in a different setting, if I got re-engaged (which never happened).

How do you feel about re-setting the main stone in a different setting, maybe platinum setting with other stones around the main stone?? Maybe use her birthstones to set off the main stone??

Its definitely a lot cheaper to have the stone reset, then to purchase a whole new ring...

Just my two cents... All the best...
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Old 12th November 2018, 4:01 PM   #3
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Has anyone had good relationship with your spouse and you wanted to get back with them that you bought a new engagement ring or wedding ring? I am thinking about buying a new engagement ring next yr depending on how the relationship is then
You “wanted to get back with them”? So you’re not with your “spouse”? Are they your spouse then?
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Old 12th November 2018, 4:59 PM   #4
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I remember your previous posts about your estranged wife just wanting casual sex from you and nothing more. Surely you've got better things to spend money on than a ring for a woman who only wants sex from you?
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Old 12th November 2018, 6:52 PM   #5
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I remember your previous posts about your estranged wife just wanting casual sex from you and nothing more. Surely you've got better things to spend money on than a ring for a woman who only wants sex from you?
The relationship has changed and better. We are not together (yet) but thinking about this next year
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Old 12th November 2018, 7:09 PM   #6
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I believe you are pushing things forward too quickly and you honestly want to marry the me person twice?
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Old 15th November 2018, 9:22 AM   #7
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Thanks. I guess will not get a ring even though to me I am getting mixed signals from her.
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