mlchris2 Posted June 13, 2006 Share Posted June 13, 2006 I usually post in the Divorce forum, but being the situation has changed a little for me, I though I would post here. I wont go into detail, for that look at my old posts. Recently my wife and I agreed that we would take thing slow and rebuild what we've lost. What this really means is that I need to be her friend, not do things that indicate i want her back and when she is ready to proceed she will. Well, I'm having a hard time with our situation. I have tried for a month to jujst be her friend, but the feelings I have I cant seem to control. I end up getting jealous, upset, hurt and we fight.... the the cycle starts all over again. So how do I find happiness in my situation when the only thing that really makes me happy, I cant have/get right now? Can you suggest other ways of me just being her friend and not showing her too much? It seems that what I am doing (helping her with her house, laundry, etc) is too much for her. Ive got one last chance here and it seems that I keep screwing it up. MC Link to post Share on other sites
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