SerCay Posted March 13, 2015 Share Posted March 13, 2015 Have any of you been in a relationship in which your partner lied so much or kept information from you so much that you've become paranoid later on? Whenever I speak to my ex nowadays, I don't believe a word he says. And then I get angry with him because I honestly believe he has just fed me a lie again... Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 Not really because after the 1st few lies I would simply never talk to them again. If I ran into them I certainly wouldn't trust anything they had to say but since they were out of my life it wouldn't matter all that much. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Arieswoman Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 It's never happened to me because after I got divorced I told every man I dated, quite early on, that I would not accept lies. I told them that lying was a deal-breaker. Two of them lied about silly things and I dumped both of them. I felt that if I couldn't trust them to be honest about small things how could I trust them over big things? I've never seen or spoken to them since, so now they are probably lying to someone else.... 2 Link to post Share on other sites
BC1980 Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 Have any of you been in a relationship in which your partner lied so much or kept information from you so much that you've become paranoid later on? Whenever I speak to my ex nowadays, I don't believe a word he says. And then I get angry with him because I honestly believe he has just fed me a lie again... Well, one of the reasons that I don't speak to my ex and am not interested in a friendship is because I don't trust him. I wouldn't recommend investing a lot in someone you can't trust. Link to post Share on other sites
Starship Posted March 15, 2015 Share Posted March 15, 2015 I have zero contact with an ex regardless if he lied or not. I don't want my current boyfriend uncomfortable with me having contact with an ex. It isn't a positive in my relationship. The exception for contact would be if there were minor children involved. Then 'if' he lied, I would just have my radar on high. Link to post Share on other sites
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