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nearly 3 months on, NC, but not getting easier


Ryan_B

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My ex left me about 2 and a half months ago, but I still love her and miss her like crazy. There's not a chance of us getting back together, so that's not what I'm asking advice for, but should I really still be like this? Everywhere I go, I see her in my mind, I'm home alone today as my friends are all busy, meaning I'm sitting around just thinking about her all the time, and I still get really upset. I'm 21, and she was my first girlfriend, and we lasted about 8 months or so. I know that's not long, but I really am still finding it hard. I am always (when they aren't busy) going out with my mates, I went out all day Yesterday with one, then clubbing with another one till 5am this morning, and I work every weekday but I keep thinking about my ex all the time, no matter what I'm doing. I'm really struggling :'(

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Instead of clubbing try doing something that builds yourself up (not down).

 

Gym, new clothes, read a book, anything that physically or mentally moves you forward and not backwards.

 

Look at what you HAVE not what you don't have as well.

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