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Does giving ex peace give you peace?


BlindRage

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If both people behaved badly, and a year later, one person is feeling fine. And the other apparently contacts to find peace. Is it good to give it to them and move on after (as in no contact ever again) :confused: or just completely ignore them in the first place?

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In my opinion, it depends on a lot of factors. Most importantly you need to desire peace with this other person and you have to be in a completely peaceful place yourself in order to truly give peace. That means free of blame, resentment, hurt, anger, obsession, desperation, devastation. You know...the gut wrenching feelings. The only emotions that one should feel when truly at peace is love and gratitude. This is achieved through acceptance of all that is/all that was.

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