roghornio Posted May 26, 2008 Share Posted May 26, 2008 Don’t beat yourself up !! What’s in the past is in the past. You will be stronger next time. Why don’t you also list HER faults too… Link to post Share on other sites
borelandkaren Posted May 27, 2008 Share Posted May 27, 2008 U poor little bugger! Is there a chance that you guys can work this out? And I mean "work". We all need this. Uv seen the light, now is there anything you can do about it? Link to post Share on other sites
mollers Posted May 27, 2008 Share Posted May 27, 2008 As roghornio says, are you maybe idealising your girlfriend a bit? I did the same things as you when my relationship ended, I thought 'I should have done this', 'I should have done that', he was the perfect one etc etc. Now I look back (and it's only just over 3 weeks), he did have a few faults too. The thing is, I tried to discuss it with him, and he wasn't willing to work at it whereas I was, he used our small differences as a reason NOT to bother working on it, which made me feel like maybe he had wanted a way out all along but wasn't being honest with me. The things you have mentioned were hardly massive issues, it's not as if you cheated on her or abused her, if she loves you she will let you work on things like this. Link to post Share on other sites
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