Nicklb Posted September 9, 2019 Posted September 9, 2019 This girl dropped everything for me during the past 4 years. I am 40. She is 30. Our pattern has been: Things are great I feel she becomes way to jealous and clingy I pull back and hurt her She moves on but never fully moves on. We get back together. This time she is adamant I took her for granted. Says it is over. Blocked me. However she keeps emailing me how bad I was. Says it is over for good. She sent me a reminder it is my sisters birthday. She now asked for my sisters address so she can send her a present. She agreed to meet me for coffee tomorrow am. She will wake up early, drive to my side of town etc. but she says “just so you know we are done for good. “ What is going on here? You want to meet me, but want to tell me it has no chance ahead of time? But also want to buy presents for my sister she never met?
Highndry Posted September 9, 2019 Posted September 9, 2019 Some women are just crazy. Instead of trying to figure it out, just shut that door and find one who isn't.
ExpatInItaly Posted September 9, 2019 Posted September 9, 2019 Why are you meeting with her? There is no point. She isn't stable, by your description. There is really no sense meeting up with her or giving her your sister's address. It's not going to be your Happily Ever After.
d0nnivain Posted September 9, 2019 Posted September 9, 2019 She thrives on the drama. This pattern will end when you tell her you are finally done & you block her. She will chase, whine, scream & carry on because in the past that has worked to get you to come back. You need to be strong & get yourself off this unhealthy merry go round.
PRW Posted September 9, 2019 Posted September 9, 2019 Things are not what they always seem. When a Break Up is NOT a Break Up
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