Purepony Posted April 21, 2019 Share Posted April 21, 2019 So after being single for five years and going back n forth by ex came back into the picture and practically ruined the current relationship I had going I finally called it quits with the new girl and it really is devastating and I’m hurting but I know it’s for the best but why does it hurt so much ? Maybe it’s the guilt I feel over walking out on her and her child or the fact that o know what she’s about and will now go full force out because of this ?! I do know that my ex is the best option for me but why does it feel wrong ? It’s gray and gloomy outside like a typical Day in Seattle Link to post Share on other sites
Blind-Sided Posted April 21, 2019 Share Posted April 21, 2019 Because your X IS NOT your best option, and you messed up a relationship that was probably better. Remember... you broke it off with your X for a reason. Sorry, but just the way I see it. Link to post Share on other sites
elaine567 Posted April 21, 2019 Share Posted April 21, 2019 Because your X IS NOT your best option, and you messed up a relationship that was probably better. Remember... you broke it off with your X for a reason. ...and he broke up with this recent girl for a reason too. Had this girl been "right" then the ex would never have had stood a chance. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted April 21, 2019 Share Posted April 21, 2019 You don't like being the source of someone else's pain. You understand how much getting dumped hurts & you are remorseful that you caused that pain in someone else. You can't stay with somebody just to avoid hurting their feelings. Good luck with your EX. I tend to agree with Blind-Sided. Going backwards is never a good idea. That fact that your EX barreled back into your life knowing you had a new SO indicates to me that your EX is not a great person. Her timing appears selfish & insensitive. Link to post Share on other sites
Rayce Posted April 21, 2019 Share Posted April 21, 2019 I am from the PNW and I just read your thread about the girl in the purple pants and cowboy boots... wow...wow she was good enough for causal... but... I want to thank you for giving me an insight into why I can't get a date... see if I have my clothes on which I do on all the dating sites I can't get a date... but if I post a nude on reddit my dating card gets filled up. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Purepony Posted April 22, 2019 Author Share Posted April 22, 2019 Update:: still trying to push the young one away because I find my ex more attractive and she’s growing on me again but it’s still hard Link to post Share on other sites
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