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Old 13th March 2019, 11:59 PM   #1
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exgirlfriend coming back...

So.. last week my ex girlfriend from 4 years ago decided to send me a hello. I have been doing pretty well on my own without her after all this time, however a simple greeting has brought back some feelings. I thought it was best to ignore her, which I did.

Today she has followed up asking how I am, and why I am ignoring her.

In my stupidity I'm actually thinking about what to do... some of my friends have said to block her. However she was someone I spent everyday with for 3 years. So these memories are hard to dismiss and not helping me seek clarity of the situation.

I've been very ill the past 4 months, so maybe health anxiety is causing me to over complicate something that shouldn't be difficult. Feel like a idiot for even contemplating replying to her.

Any advice would be appreciated.

Thank you!

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Old 14th March 2019, 12:49 AM   #2
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How did you guys end things?
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Old 14th March 2019, 12:53 AM   #3
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Originally Posted by sandrawg View Post
How did you guys end things?
She broke up over a phone call. Went cold immediately. Dragged along as "friends" for 2 weeks before contact stopped both ways. It was ruthless.

I don't think about it much anymore... until this week.
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Old 14th March 2019, 1:25 AM   #4
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Continue with NC. Block her and don't reply especially when thinking about her brings back the hurt. You don't want this to set you back from moving forward.
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Old 14th March 2019, 3:17 AM   #5
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Ask her what she wants ?
I mean thatís what I would do because Iíd like to know and if itís simetgjng selfish or dumb block her on the spot and donít even reply
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Old 14th March 2019, 4:24 AM   #6
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Unless you ended on good terms, it would be like buying back your old car, same issues and more mileage. Tread carefully with this one.
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