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Old 10th November 2017, 9:56 AM   #16
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Like the priest says after confession..."Now go forth and sin no more!" It will be a big regret in your experience. We all do it in this thing called life. Good news is, there is plenty of other "new" experiences to be had and new relationships to be made. Apply what you have learned from this one and make good on the new ones. You will grow tremendously and be wiser for it. Let this one go. It is for the best. It will eventually make you stronger. Best of luck.
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Old 10th November 2017, 10:10 AM   #17
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Originally Posted by d0nnivain View Post
You two are broken up. You have no say in how she lives her life now.

When she broke up with you, your EX may have wanted to be alone. I would assume her statement was true at the time she told you that.

It's been a few months since you two broke up. It's hardly realistic to think that she would stay single forever or that she would not move on.

Your friends who reported to you that she's "talking" to a new guy told you what they saw. Watching her talk to another man is not proof that she's dating the man.

You foolishly & arrogantly confronted her. You have no right to confront her about anything. Who she's dating is no longer any of your business. She nevertheless answered your Q. Her saying "it's just rumors" is her way of telling you that she isn't dating the guy -- they are just talking / just friends. You have to be smart enough to realize she may be heading toward dating him but she is free to do that & you don't get a say.

Just block her out of your life already. Go chase the girl you had the EA with.
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