Suruhx Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 2 weeks ago my (ex)boyfriend called to tell me that he was no longer in love with me and that his feelings were not the same as what they were before. But he still cares about me. It is probably important to state that he rang me when I was coming back from OUR house (I work away Monday-Thursday) after kissing me goodbye and saying 'I love you'. A bit of background information: I met him three years ago when I turned 18, and he was 22. We immediately hit it off and I couldn't believe how identical someone could be to myself. We are so compatible together, and everyone always commented on our relationship. Obviously, like most relationships, we had arguments and fights, but we were always able to work through them. August 1st, we moved into our own house together and everything was perfect, we loved having our own space (he was previously loving with his Mother and sister). 3 weeks later we were on holidays with a few friends and I felt that I was never closer to him, that something was re-sparked in our relationship and I was the happiest I had ever been. And it seemed that he was mirroring exactly how I was feeling. 2 weeks after coming back from holidays he drops this bomb on me that he isn't in love with me anymore. Safe to say it was a shock and I NEVER seen it coming. After spending the last few days on this site reading how other people are coping (well done to you all!) I think I have a feeling where this came from. His mother has had a lot of relationships throughout her life and he was there to witness them all. Maybe I'm just searching for a reason (as he couldn't not give me one because he is 'confused and doesn't understand what happened). I believe that he couldn't emotionally commit to the fact we had a house together. But as I said, maybe I'm just grasping at the tiniest of possibilities. I started no contact last week, a day after meeting him at the house to pick up my belongings. It is hard to not speak as we spent 3 years talking to each other everyday, but I completely understand for me to emotionally detach from him that this is the only way. I would love to hear everyone's opinion on my situation, thanks for reading, sorry for it being so long
mystikmind2005 Posted October 12, 2015 Posted October 12, 2015 my 6 year marriage ended this January. This particular song really lifted my mood more than any song i ever heard before, check it out on Youtube, its called 'Anyway' by Martina McBride
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