towardthefuture Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 Late at night last night I was having a hard time and I called my ex and left a voice mail about how I'm changing, done a lot of self-improvement and I still want her, etc.,etc., some bad stuff I shouldn't have left. Now today I'm wondering if I should send something like "Disregard my voice mail. It was a mistake. I'm moving on. Was up late working, that's all." before going back to NC. Or should I just go back to NC. I may feel better leaving it off with something dispassionate, but that also might just be breaking NC again. Any thoughts? Link to post Share on other sites
Rainbowlove Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 Leave it be. You had a moment. Let it go. Learn from it and move on. Don't apologize for having a moment of weakness. Just don't do it again. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BC1980 Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 Don't contact her again. It's a slippery slope, and contact seems to invite more contact. Work on accepting that she sees you how she sees you. At this point, there is nothing you can do to change her view of you. Her opinion was formed during the relationship. Link to post Share on other sites
Zahara Posted December 29, 2014 Share Posted December 29, 2014 Own it. Own the message that you sent and leave it be. The only reason you want to leave her that second voicemail is because she hasn't replied and you want to preserve your ego. It's done. Let it be. Get your focus back on improving your life. Link to post Share on other sites
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