I'mBatman Posted December 9, 2014 Posted December 9, 2014 (edited) Hello everyone im making this to let people know a scenario where no contact would have worked really well. Anyway if you want the full story check out my profile and look in the 2nd chances sub-forum. I was with her for 3 year it was great. We were first loves. She dumped me. Later found out from a friend she had been cheating thought it was a one night thing first time around. I went no contact. Showed up to one of my parties 3 weeks later to yell at me. Was very hot and cold with me, could obviously tell she was a wreck and no contact was working its charm. Couple of weeks later i drunk called her and we slept together. Hung out the next few days she begged me back. I made her tell me everything. Over the next couple weeks her story changed i learned more and more stuff from her friends. Found out she had been hanging with the guy a month before the breakup and she made out and slept in his bed. Dumped her for a final time and told her the only thing she had left to give was the truth and i ended up learning after i dumped her that he had fingered her for a short time b4 she turned him down for sex. I had to have her friend ask the guy what happened to finally learn this. Any who you know what have worked really well for her? NO CONTACT duh. Right when i kept finding stuff out she should have told me the truth and gone no contact. Id have been SUPER pissed but probably would have handled the news better. But instead she whined, begged, and cried that she didn't tell me because she was embarrassed and didn't want to lose me. None of it worked. But you know what is working right now? You guessed it NO CONTACT!!!!! I told her i was going to move on with my life and told her to do the same. She said she hoped i find a girl i deserved but that she is still going to wait for me even tho i deserve better and then that was it. She cut me off right there. Deleted me from twitter and snapchat. Changed her relationship status. I beat her to the punch for un-following on fb but still. She stopped contacting my sister and mom as well. I didnt even see her post gloomy stuff on any social media. I really expected more begging and will have to say i thoroughly disappointed. I haven talked to her in just days and im antsy as hell. I miss her already even after her stupid lies and deceit. So there you have it folks. Im highly informed on how no contact works and it still.....WORKS! Its a metter of time before one of us breaks Edited December 9, 2014 by I'mBatman
JollyDays Posted December 9, 2014 Posted December 9, 2014 (edited) Hello everyone im making this to let people know a scenario where no contact would have worked really well. Anyway if you want the full story check out my profile and look in the 2nd chances sub-forum. I was with her for 3 year it was great. We were first loves. She dumped me. Later found out from a friend she had been cheating thought it was a one night thing first time around. I went no contact. Showed up to one of my parties 3 weeks later to yell at me. Was very hot and cold with me, could obviously tell she was a wreck and no contact was working its charm. Couple of weeks later i drunk called her and we slept together. Hung out the next few days she begged me back. I made her tell me everything. Over the next couple weeks her story changed i learned more and more stuff from her friends. Found out she had been hanging with the guy a month before the breakup and she made out and slept in his bed. Dumped her for a final time and told her the only thing she had left to give was the truth and i ended up learning after i dumped her that he had fingered her for a short time b4 she turned him down for sex. I had to have her friend ask the guy what happened to finally learn this. Any who you know what have worked really well for her? NO CONTACT duh. Right when i kept finding stuff out she should have told me the truth and gone no contact. Id have been SUPER pissed but probably would have handled the news better. But instead she whined, begged, and cried that she didn't tell me because she was embarrassed and didn't want to lose me. None of it worked. But you know what is working right now? You guessed it NO CONTACT!!!!! I told her i was going to move on with my life and told her to do the same. She said she hoped i find a girl i deserved but that she is still going to wait for me even tho i deserve better and then that was it. She cut me off right there. Deleted me from twitter and snapchat. Changed her relationship status. I beat her to the punch for un-following on fb but still. She stopped contacting my sister and mom as well. I didnt even see her post gloomy stuff on any social media. I really expected more begging and will have to say i thoroughly disappointed. I haven talked to her in just days and im antsy as hell. I miss her already even after her stupid lies and deceit. So there you have it folks. Im highly informed on how no contact works and it still.....WORKS! Its a metter of time before one of us breaks Just close the door and move on. You have eyes in front of your head for a reason. I tried moving on for damn near 7 years after my ex broke our LDR off, and then she messaged me in 2011 through Yahoo Messenger. I had been doing so well, going on dates, completing my Bachelor's degree, and eventually forgetting about her. I fronted her off, trying to end the convo really quickly through rudeness, and it worked. But she opened up Pandoras Box, and the love I had for her reemerged (or never truly left). She broke up with me, and I just don't understand why she felt the need to contact me. Loved her and resented her for that. Don't get caught up in the love matrix. We give women so much power, and they understand their powerful role very well. But I'm done. Edited December 9, 2014 by JollyDays
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