maylis Posted November 14, 2014 Share Posted November 14, 2014 I will try to summarize briefly...I was with my ex for 2 and a half years but with many breakups and the final breakup was about 6 weeks ago and was because I found out that he was cheating on me with his coworker. So of course we haven't spoken since then. Monday I received a message from his best friend to go to a concert next week. This is someone who hasn't even spoken to me since before the breakup and pretty much stopped talking to me because of the issue in our relationship (which was his ex and his best friend happens to be a good friend with his ex). He didn't even bother to ask if I was ok at all during any point after this last breakup. Why would he contact me now and to go to a concert together? Link to post Share on other sites
Fix Posted November 14, 2014 Share Posted November 14, 2014 He knows you're single and wants to sleep with you? More obvious answer is usually the right one. Link to post Share on other sites
Author maylis Posted November 14, 2014 Author Share Posted November 14, 2014 Not possible, he isn't that kind of person. They're BEST friends, they've gone on a 2 month holiday together, they're really close. Link to post Share on other sites
Author maylis Posted November 14, 2014 Author Share Posted November 14, 2014 Also : The time I broke up with my ex before this his friend also didn't contact me and then 2 months later this happened and there were discussions about my ex and I'm pretty sure he told him. Link to post Share on other sites
Fix Posted November 14, 2014 Share Posted November 14, 2014 Not possible, he isn't that kind of person. Okay then, it's impossible that a single guy would invite a single girl randomly to a concert and the though of sex is nowhere in his head... Really? Link to post Share on other sites
Author maylis Posted November 14, 2014 Author Share Posted November 14, 2014 Okay then, it's impossible that a single guy would invite a single girl randomly to a concert and the though of sex is nowhere in his head... Really? You would do that to your best friend? Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted November 14, 2014 Share Posted November 14, 2014 You would do that to your best friend? I wouldn't but many people would. Link to post Share on other sites
lauri Posted November 14, 2014 Share Posted November 14, 2014 It doesn't matter why he messaged you. My only suggestion is don't go. This could end up extremely messy...maybe he has feelings for you or just thinks he can get some action out of you. Or maybe your ex boyfriend will be there with him and he's trying to "fix things". Just stay far far away from this whole situation. Link to post Share on other sites
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