Mrlonelyone Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 For months I got these phone calls with blocked ID. When I did answer no sound on the phone. May or may not have been her. Let's assume they weren't for now. Now I get these online messages and contacts from variants of her name. Only a couple. One was kinda cute, a youtube video that was funny in the dark disturbed way we both like. It is hard to dismiss those. Those are the facts. Should I take this as they at least want to reopen dialogue? I would love to dive right into the most pressing question but how should I say. She is not one for being very good with the big conversations.
MoooOinkBaaa Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 Hmmm why would someone be reaching out like this. If she has good intentions maybe she is scared of directly contacting you. You did say she isn't good at the big conversations. If you broke up months ago it's weird to return as both parties don't know what page each other are on now. I don't really know, it could just be a wind up who knows. What time are you receiving these messages? If it's late at night she could be missing you. Are you going to reply or continue NC?
Chi townD Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 If she can't be direct with you, then all you're going to be doing is dancing around each other. Waste of your time. 3
forgetmenot75 Posted December 11, 2013 Posted December 11, 2013 I'd say you can re open dialogue if you think that won't set you back. Who broke with who? How long ago? Anyways, if you think you want a second chance with her (!) just be casual, light. Let things flow. Maybe comment on the cute youtube video, without being to straightforward. Maybe play a little if you both like this kind of games. You know what you have to do Just be aware she might not want to be with you again and might be bored or lonely, or just curious about you. that's a very different thing.
Author Mrlonelyone Posted December 11, 2013 Author Posted December 11, 2013 It has been late or early in the morning. It was a mutual but kind of nasty parting of ways... but first before we last saw each other things were a bit better. I've replied both times but the response hasn't been direct. Chi town D, harangued point unless she can respond in a less encrypted manner, this won't go anywhere.
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