haggard969 Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 the day she was breaking up with me. we held eachother on the couch all morning. she cried telling me how much she loved me n that i was all she ever wanted. she said she just wanted time n space. we were staring into eachothers eyes n she would kiss me n hold me tight n cry i asked her how long until id see her. she said a few weeks. next day i see her profile picture with her and her new bf. she had a big smile on her face. holding him. i couldnt believe it. after 3 years. we talked. she said im sorry im with him now. she said she found what she was looking for and did not love me or care anymore. she said have a nice life. so my question is what the f*ck.? our relationship was good n happy with little arguments. the four of us. me her my daughter her daughter.
Chi townD Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Wait...wait.....she posted this pic THE NEXT DAY?!?!?! After all the crying and kissing and telling you that you're the best and that she can't do better than you? Sure, I got an answer for ya. She's one hell of an actress! 4
Mariposa10 Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 This is really disturbing. Sometimes I don't understand how cruel some people can be.
organizedchaos Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 the day she was breaking up with me. we held eachother on the couch all morning. she cried telling me how much she loved me n that i was all she ever wanted. she said she just wanted time n space. we were staring into eachothers eyes n she would kiss me n hold me tight n cry i asked her how long until id see her. she said a few weeks. next day i see her profile picture with her and her new bf. she had a big smile on her face. holding him. i couldnt believe it. after 3 years. we talked. she said im sorry im with him now. she said she found what she was looking for and did not love me or care anymore. she said have a nice life. so my question is what the f*ck.? our relationship was good n happy with little arguments. the four of us. me her my daughter her daughter. That's pretty messed up and should tell you all you need to know about her.
Author haggard969 Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 yes. considering we were starting a family. no arguments or nothing. i helped her graduate n get a good job. n then she left me for a guy at her work. she said she felt sorry for him because his gf dumped him n he has no family or friends. so she turns around n does the same thing to me.i cant even see my step daughter anymore.
headinthecloud Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 I'm so sorry. She's emotionally disturbed. Cut her out of your life for good - complete NC - zero.
lauri Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Let her realize how stupid and immature she is by ignoring her and acting like you don't care. Trust me man, she's no good if she did that. Can't believe what some people do these days...
Author haggard969 Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 yes. honestly i cant even think of a word to explain how i feel. when your love\bestfriend wants nothing todo with you. its not fair
lauri Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 yes. honestly i cant even think of a word to explain how i feel. when your love\bestfriend wants nothing todo with you. its not fair I know. What type of best friend love is that though? Mine convinced me to quit my job and move back joke ( we were long distance). I cut her off and I'm not looking back - you should too for yourself.
Ireallydontknow Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 This sounds all too familiar. During our break up we cuddled (naked) and kissed, looked into each other eyes. We got up and sang songs, ordered a pizza, and were about to watch our favorite TV show together. I couldn't stop thinking about how she just f***** another person. I broke the silence of what was going on and knew we weren't going to work. She whined about missing me, what if she made a mistake, I'll never forget you. 3 days later - in relationship. Month or so later the "couples" picture. What does it mean? Whoooo knows! Sometimes the love that helps you deal with pain is super intense, they think it's all they needed to get through their life. That stuff fades, and when it does who's gonna come out on top? Well, it all depends on what you do with yourself? I hope you are NC, I hope you are working on being the best version of you, you can be. So to answer your questions, well there is no "answer" only theory. Guilt is the main one, but who really knows? We will also never know because the ones like that will never let you in on their dirty little secrets, they'll never show you the full truth. So worry less on the why and on the "what", the what you can do for yourself. 1
Fufu Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 the day she was breaking up with me. we held eachother on the couch all morning. she cried telling me how much she loved me n that i was all she ever wanted. she said she just wanted time n space. we were staring into eachothers eyes n she would kiss me n hold me tight n cry i asked her how long until id see her. she said a few weeks. next day i see her profile picture with her and her new bf. she had a big smile on her face. holding him. i couldnt believe it. after 3 years. we talked. she said im sorry im with him now. she said she found what she was looking for and did not love me or care anymore. she said have a nice life. so my question is what the f*ck.? our relationship was good n happy with little arguments. the four of us. me her my daughter her daughter. You know what! I think you really have to feel super blessed and fortunate you are not with her anymore. This ex of yours just doesn't sound emotionally-balanced. 1
InnocentMan Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 Awful behaviour. Would expect this from a daft teenager, but not from a mature relationship where kids are involved. At least this should help you move on and forget her. 1
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