Was this ok to say to my ex before the start of no contact?

[Vinsanity1307]

I sent the following message to my ex after starting no contact is it ok? Maybe a little personal...thoughts please

 

 

Here is my original story on my relationship....comments are appreciated.

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/417106-dumped-after-5-years

 

 

( x girlfriends name) im sure im the last person you want to here from but please read....first of all thanks for not flipping out last night cause I showed up....and letting me kiss your cheek last night regardless it lit up my heart...gay I know lol.... everything I said in that letter and* texts is true.... You were my best friend/Lover /my other half and counterpart to balancing me out the past 5 years .....thank you for showing me this ........ They have been the best 5 years of my life regardless of everything.....i can't deny that..This is true...whether I gave you a hard time or not admitted to being my gf you were all those things...we got along really well and clicked on all levels (remember 42 orgasms* h o l y* ****).....the chemistry we had only happens once in a lifetime I know that......i Figured that out when remember we were in my kitchen and you were doing my dishes and I was making my peanut butter and fluff and said I can see us doing that forever....i wont forget that moment....if you didn't feel these feelings too we wouldn't of done half the stuff we did..you know what haha...that's why we fought so hard for each other..Just think of all and there were alot great moments we shared old orchard, Roberts, tinas wedding, Florida, or just relaxing watching a movie in my bed....just think real hard* on all the positives.. I made mistakes... you have too.....i forgave...we are human..I just thought everyone deserves a second chance and was hoping for mine ...i didnt realize what I had till few months ago which is.why I was much nicer and whatnot......I have been hoping up till yesterday someday you would text me hoping to realize what we had and we can move on...before you did anything.....but after what I saw there's no if ands or buts about what is or will go on with Ron..thats my nail in the coffin as I put it.....i just didnt think you could be around me for 5 years* after it all and start talking to a former bf only after a week...inevitability I suppose......i guess I never knew you really then if that's how you are...It's no longer my business...if your heart isn't even into me a little bit it and thats how you are it is what it is...... no matter how much pain this causes I forgive you for putting me through this again ..and am finally* letting go ...I did want you in my life but I dont need you in it...I will move on starting today...people come in and out of my life but there will always be a place in my heart for you (especially after all our shannonanigans..yeah I know spelt that wrong) ....I love you and be happy....I mean that...* (would you look at that I had some sensitivity left) haha

[Soat]

First, a goodbye note that's barely readable/understandable with the ... ... Use sentences and attempt some punctuation. Second, it's over so just leave her and you alone to heal. Third, sexual chemistry and bragging about her orgasms is tacky and shows insecurity about whatever you had together.

 

Frankly you should have written this and then tore it up. Suggest you read my guide below.

[Vinsanity1307]

As for grammer and punctuation I always do............ in my texts. Thats just how I text. And that was off emotions clearly..and as for the reminding of the orgasms was just a reminder of the chemistry we had....which there was no ifs ands or buts about it....it can't be denied...tgat want even our best time...my point was reminding of some of it great moments and their were alot....i always believed in not being selfish and focus on their needs in a relationship....it made me happy to make them happy and no not just physical.....I do not want this to be forgotten...so I have my confidence in that area...