forgetmenot75 Posted June 10, 2013 Posted June 10, 2013 You just NEVER forget. I'm sorry, I'm in a bad mood today, a little bit on the crazy side (as someone told me earlier here) But I wanted to clear up this: you never forget about those who you've cared for. I'm telling you a little story to illustrate this. Once upon a time () I was in high school, madly in love with a classmate. He never loved me, nor gave me any hope, but...I was in love, and I fantasized he loved me, but he was shy (sure! ha!) We finished high school and I never saw him again, besides one time, a high school reunion two years later, in which I told him I still love him (blah!). Of course, he still felt the same for me: nothing. After this I never saw him again, until he contacted me via Facebook, 3 years ago. I still feel this tingling thing each time he post something, and I don't feel indifference for him, absolutely not! Who can feel indifference for a person whom you once loved?? Of course, my feelings have changed for him, I've had other lovers, husband etc in the middle, I don't love him anymore, I don't think of him until I see something posted on Facebook, I don't daydream about him, and I really couldn't care less what is he doing with his life...but indifference? Na. Never indifference. And more than 14 years have passed. 1
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 Yeah I kind of have to agree with you on that. I'm fairly certain I will NEVER be indifferent with my ex. I'm no kid either- I've had plenty of relationships that I DO feel indifferent about, this one seems different for some reason. She was, is, and will always be batshyte crazy, but I had (or thought I had) a very deep connection with her. Even after an eight year, super-toxic relationship I don't know why this is different, it just is.
flitzanu Posted June 11, 2013 Posted June 11, 2013 You just NEVER forget. I'm sorry, I'm in a bad mood today, a little bit on the crazy side (as someone told me earlier here) But I wanted to clear up this: you never forget about those who you've cared for. I'm telling you a little story to illustrate this. Once upon a time () I was in high school, madly in love with a classmate. He never loved me, nor gave me any hope, but...I was in love, and I fantasized he loved me, but he was shy (sure! ha!) We finished high school and I never saw him again, besides one time, a high school reunion two years later, in which I told him I still love him (blah!). Of course, he still felt the same for me: nothing. After this I never saw him again, until he contacted me via Facebook, 3 years ago. I still feel this tingling thing each time he post something, and I don't feel indifference for him, absolutely not! Who can feel indifference for a person whom you once loved?? Of course, my feelings have changed for him, I've had other lovers, husband etc in the middle, I don't love him anymore, I don't think of him until I see something posted on Facebook, I don't daydream about him, and I really couldn't care less what is he doing with his life...but indifference? Na. Never indifference. And more than 14 years have passed. i don't understand what this has to do with no contact? you never dated and never broke up. but no, there's no rule saying you can't like someone many years or forever that you've crushed on in the past and never came to fruition.
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