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Old 10th April 2013, 10:50 AM   #1
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Just need some encouragement from those who have been where I am

I have been with my boyfriend for over three years. Our relationship went downhill fast a year ago after he found this new club he is a part of. We went together, and he got mad at me for asking him to stop drinking so much and left me in a bad area, all alone, all my belongings in the car he left in. He eventually came back after I asked a friend at this spot for cash to get home and was walking to a train, but handed me my belongings and ran. I don't want to be with him anymore. He is immature, and I am too old (34) to deal with a man with the mentality of a 13 year old. I love him, but I don't feel it back, words only go so far and NO man should leave a female, who is drunk herself, in the middle of a bad area.

I am not as strong as I seem though and I need encouragment. I have been talking to someone else, and I want to meet him, however, won't do so until I am fully single. I just need to find the inner strength. I am sick of being called chunky, sick of him playing mind games.. =(
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Old 10th April 2013, 10:59 AM   #2
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What he did to you is disgusting. I'm so sorry you had to put up with that.

Please find the strength to walk away. You deserve better.
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Old 10th April 2013, 11:28 AM   #3
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we deserve better. we're on the same age but we need not to lose hope. I've been left by an immature guy too, it's a 10 yr relationship. he saved himself and throw me away like a trash. all i did was trust, wait and understand him. he even asked me to marry him and dumped me telling insulting words that i never imagine he will say.

it hurts so much but we have to move on. I know there's someone for us, someone better, someone who will treat us right and be with us forever. I am planning to be single until I feel no pain of the past relationship. I recently enrolled in a culinary school to forget everything that happened or I will lose my mind thinking about the past.

be strong. everything happens for a reason. the pain we're feeling right now will end one day...
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