Thunderchild Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 Good Morning All On Day 15 of No Contact. I keep hearing that weeks 2-4 are a particularly difficult phase. Can anyone enlighten me as to why??
Sososad Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 I'm not sure I've read so many conflicting Stories maybe its cause the realization Is this may not be the little tiff u thought and she's serious about not coming back Could it be you've kept so busy your now running out of things running on fumes Really not sure
TaraMaiden Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 Because habits take 21 - 28 to form. They also take that long to get out of your system. It's the same with giving up any 'addiction'. The 3rd/4th week is always the 'boulder-barrier'..... 1
jovan Posted March 3, 2013 Posted March 3, 2013 well there's no braking points, you won't feel a sudden relief after the 4th week or the 5th, take it day by day. Some day's you will cry, some other day's not so much . hang in there mate 1
Author Thunderchild Posted March 3, 2013 Author Posted March 3, 2013 Because habits take 21 - 28 to form. They also take that long to get out of your system. It's the same with giving up any 'addiction'. The 3rd/4th week is always the 'boulder-barrier'..... Tara - Many thanks, so effectively No Contact is a form of rehab? Yes, I can see that now.
Author Thunderchild Posted March 3, 2013 Author Posted March 3, 2013 well there's no braking points, you won't feel a sudden relief after the 4th week or the 5th, take it day by day. Some day's you will cry, some other day's not so much . hang in there mate Many thanks Jovan. I think I've shed enough tears over that one - she simply isn't worth it/doesn't deserve it.
Author Thunderchild Posted March 3, 2013 Author Posted March 3, 2013 (edited) Own Worst Enemy. Many thanks. I think I'm well on the road to acceptance. It's probably just breaking the habit. Edited March 3, 2013 by Thunderchild
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