greenyx Posted November 4, 2012 Share Posted November 4, 2012 So me and my ex have remained really good friends ever since we broke back before summer. During the summer since I didnt see him that much I was so close to fully getting over this guy. but now that sumer has ended and I see him a lot more, old feelings have started to come back. I went to a club and that obviusly lead to drunk texting here's how it went (my spelling was not this good aha) me: "Ui love youuu him:I know babe, you a litle drunk or something babe me: well a bnit ahaha what you douing atm him: why? me: what you doingngg and i went to acdemy (the club) and im going home noww him:Im mor easking about the i love you part? me: ohhh waht you wanna know aout it ahahaa him: why? me: what you mean why? ahaha him:why did you say that me: aha dunno, just dont think i say it enough, liek batner friends aha him: no no its fine, I just wanted to know the context me:ahh okay oaky dw, we're just banter us two, i just loev our banter haha him:not in any other way then? me: well it wouldnt matter if it did ahaha dwdw i wont get all seiruos on you, ill leave ya now him:nooo. i wanna know what you mean by it wouldnt matter if you meant it a different way me: wel hypthertically if i did mean in a diffeerent way it wouldnt matter course yeah, just wouldnt matter him: why. i dunno what you mean? me:dont worry ahaha dont kknow what im saying aha you just mean a lot to me, dw, and wouldnt matter cause u wouldnt care ahaha him: i care now me: ahaha no you dont ahaha well anyways, sosrry about this, i just like talking to you and all him: its fine, i like talking to you too, im still confused tho, i do care and i wanna know what you mean? me: dwdw i dont wanan say anything ill regret, ahh im so dizzy i want a hug him: tlel me, i demand it, and il give you a hug next time i see you yea? me: nono you;ll think im silly and i dont wanna make things awks and yes please love your hugs hahaha him: sotp being stupid and tlel me me: no i ll regret it in the morning him: tell me. or i wont speak to you again me: what no, dont do thaaat fine ill saybtu its stupid to say him: say it me: ugh hate you for making me do this, its not gna do anything anyways him: please tell me me: why should i? dont mean anything and its not like you care and nothing gna happen him: i care and i want to know me: it doesnt mean anything dwdw ahaa i just want a hug him: it does to me now me:well why would it ahaha notihng means to you aha him: what? i care about you more than anyone else me: thank youuu and me too ahah and wlel you dont care about anything him: what are you talking about? me: you dont care about anything, i feel dizzy, sorry about this, ill apologize in the morning him: you knwo what. dont bother me: sorry, what do you want me to say, ask me and i will asnwer him: go to sleep me: cant go to sleep sorry about earlier, ill leave ya now, dw, jsut tthought id be able to say something but i couldnt, dw i wont keep you up him: dont bother talking to me again i spoligsed in the morning and got no reply...analysis please Link to post Share on other sites
River Rain Posted November 4, 2012 Share Posted November 4, 2012 Brutal honesty? You sounded like a drunken fool. You sounded like you were playing with him and teasing him, whether or not that was your intention. No wonder he told you not to bother. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mcnulty Posted November 4, 2012 Share Posted November 4, 2012 Him:dont bother talking to me again...you text next day and he didn't reply....clear enough? Delete his number. Link to post Share on other sites
Sameold Posted November 4, 2012 Share Posted November 4, 2012 Because you were messing around with his head and leaving breadcrumbs? That was pretty low of you and honestly, well done him for taking a stance and meaning what he said. Link to post Share on other sites
Tree_Salmon Posted November 4, 2012 Share Posted November 4, 2012 So me and my ex have remained really good friends ever since we broke back before summer. During the summer since I didnt see him that much I was so close to fully getting over this guy. but now that sumer has ended and I see him a lot more, old feelings have started to come back. I went to a club and that obviusly lead to drunk texting here's how it went (my spelling was not this good aha) me: "Ui love youuu him:I know babe, you a litle drunk or something babe me: well a bnit ahaha what you douing atm him: why? me: what you doingngg and i went to acdemy (the club) and im going home noww him:Im mor easking about the i love you part? me: ohhh waht you wanna know aout it ahahaa him: why? me: what you mean why? ahaha him:why did you say that me: aha dunno, just dont think i say it enough, liek batner friends aha him: no no its fine, I just wanted to know the context me:ahh okay oaky dw, we're just banter us two, i just loev our banter haha him:not in any other way then? me: well it wouldnt matter if it did ahaha dwdw i wont get all seiruos on you, ill leave ya now him:nooo. i wanna know what you mean by it wouldnt matter if you meant it a different way me: wel hypthertically if i did mean in a diffeerent way it wouldnt matter course yeah, just wouldnt matter him: why. i dunno what you mean? me:dont worry ahaha dont kknow what im saying aha you just mean a lot to me, dw, and wouldnt matter cause u wouldnt care ahaha him: i care now me: ahaha no you dont ahaha well anyways, sosrry about this, i just like talking to you and all him: its fine, i like talking to you too, im still confused tho, i do care and i wanna know what you mean? me: dwdw i dont wanan say anything ill regret, ahh im so dizzy i want a hug him: tlel me, i demand it, and il give you a hug next time i see you yea? me: nono you;ll think im silly and i dont wanna make things awks and yes please love your hugs hahaha him: sotp being stupid and tlel me me: no i ll regret it in the morning him: tell me. or i wont speak to you again me: what no, dont do thaaat fine ill saybtu its stupid to say him: say it me: ugh hate you for making me do this, its not gna do anything anyways him: please tell me me: why should i? dont mean anything and its not like you care and nothing gna happen him: i care and i want to know me: it doesnt mean anything dwdw ahaa i just want a hug him: it does to me now me:well why would it ahaha notihng means to you aha him: what? i care about you more than anyone else me: thank youuu and me too ahah and wlel you dont care about anything him: what are you talking about? me: you dont care about anything, i feel dizzy, sorry about this, ill apologize in the morning him: you knwo what. dont bother me: sorry, what do you want me to say, ask me and i will asnwer him: go to sleep me: cant go to sleep sorry about earlier, ill leave ya now, dw, jsut tthought id be able to say something but i couldnt, dw i wont keep you up him: dont bother talking to me again i spoligsed in the morning and got no reply...analysis please You want the truth? You sound annoying as hell in those texts. I'd tell you the same. Sounds like he was susceptible to talking with you but you were too sloppy. If you had been sober and texting him coherent thoughts about loving him then you might have been successful. No quicker turn off than the sloppy drunken girl. Link to post Share on other sites
Mcnulty Posted November 4, 2012 Share Posted November 4, 2012 The biggest turn off is the girl who left you for your mate and then when it went tits up, starts trying to get jiggy with you via text...bleeuurrggh! Link to post Share on other sites
InThePinc Posted November 4, 2012 Share Posted November 4, 2012 God I'm like this in texts when i'm drunk. I get so insecure and convince myself that nobody could really love me! I even tell my husband he doesnt love me lol. I dont know what went on between you two to make you break up but if you do love him then personally i would text him while sober and just say it straight. No messing around, no riddles just literally 'I am still in love with you'. If he answers then take it from there. but if he doesn't then you know its over and dont contact him anymore as you're making it harder for yourself to move on! good luck x Link to post Share on other sites
gullibleme Posted November 5, 2012 Share Posted November 5, 2012 I agree with InThePinc I think he truly wanted to hear what you were saying and was really receptive to it and you were feeling too insecure to actually tell him and therefore playing a little game of "you don't care what I have to say" type of thing...I think you screwed up in the moment but give it a little more time and when sober confront him with the truth...you have nothing to loose he didn't completely blow you off when you said those things...he wanted to hear your real feelings and i think he may feel the same..just my thought Link to post Share on other sites
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