dp421685 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Almost a month of NC and doing Pretty good. Everyday has been better than the previous. Last night my friends and I went out to a club, pretty big one and I saw my ex there with a another guy. I didn't make eye contact or anything and went on my way to having a great night. we were in seperate sections of the place so I never saw her the rest of the night. Apparently she noticed me and i got a text from her around 2:30 am saying "save me? No?" I didn't respond and then around 4:30 am she calls me but no message. I didn't pick up and I haven't acted on anything. Any thoughts ? Advice ? On next steps?
barese1 Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Depends what you want really but saying that, the fact you saw her in a club with another guy and it didn't effect you enough to ruin your night says to me you're moved on which is good.
Author dp421685 Posted September 2, 2012 Author Posted September 2, 2012 I can see us being "friendly" not now but in the future however I don't know what games she is playing right now. Just want some outside opinions.
Chi townD Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 What the hell was "save me? No?" supposed to mean?
Author dp421685 Posted September 2, 2012 Author Posted September 2, 2012 Maybe she wasnt having fun with the guy she was with? I really have no clue.
Chi townD Posted September 2, 2012 Posted September 2, 2012 Okay, I would chalk it up as drunk dialing. She probably woke up the next morning next to the guy and probably regretted texting you. Stay NC and make improvements to your life.
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