Who is this guy? Just send me my hoodie and leave me alone!

[lovehurts82]

So.. yesterday I ended up giving my soon to be address so he could send my hoodie back. It was my favorite and my mother had given it to me as a gift. I then changed my mind and told him I couldn't have him send it to the place I was moving.. just to send it to my parent's house.

 

X: Oh okay. So that's no treasure map?

Me: I'm confused. On the hoodie? I thought it was the one with the lion on it or something.

X:Lol I meant a treasure map to the hoodie lol

Me: Oh. I'm pretty sure I could remember my way to your house if I wanted to come get it, but it's not worth THAT much to me

X:Lol. Didn't mean that, but still a little geocache adventure might be fun

 

I didn't respond to him after that. I guess if he sends it back, he does. If not.. he doesn't. But wtf?! I think he's lost it. It really just annoys me that he can't just send the damn thing and stop trying to play games. I tried being civil and at least not being cold as I had been before.. but wtf is up with him? And a treasure map to my hoodie? That would be his house. Wonder how his fiance would feel about that?

 

I can't think that he would think he still has me strung along. I've tried being civil and he's wanting to joke and play games. How can sending me a "treasure map to my hoodie" which is at his house.. not mean me coming to his house to get it? Playing hide and go seek with him via GPS? Yeah.. I bet she'd have a ball with that! Has he seriously lost it?

 

I think I'm beyond NC for healing from the hurt. Now it's more of an annoyance than anything cause I don't want to play his stupid little games anymore.

[KatZee]

Well I mean you're the one interacting with him trying to get this hoodie back... which in one breath you say you want back because it means so much, and then in the next sentence you're saying it doesn't mean all that much to go and get back yourself. So it can't be all that important at the end of the day.

 

It kind of sounds like you're being nice to him and encouraging his friendly behavior.

 

Your text message should just say, "Send the sweatshirt to my parents house. Thank you."

 

Nothing else. No conversation, no banter, nothing.

[lovehurts82]

Well I mean you're the one interacting with him trying to get this hoodie back... which in one breath you say you want back because it means so much, and then in the next sentence you're saying it doesn't mean all that much to go and get back yourself. So it can't be all that important at the end of the day.

 

He lives 8.5 hours away from me.. 3 states away, so while I want the sweatshirt back, I wouldn't drive that far to get it and turn around and come back.