Future7 Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 This summer after senior year I went to several parties at my friends house. There are many girls who went to these parties but I was always taken so I never ever thought about cheating nor did any girls try to make moves on me. I told my friend Mike about this, and he actually told his girlfriend that I was cheating on my girlfriend. The summer was going very good until it hit time for college talk with my GF of two years. And we both knew we didn't want to talk about it. We are only going to colleges 1 hour away and I was committed, but her not so much. We took a break for a week however nothing changed. We still acted like a couple. A week ago At her grad party Mike's girlfriend told a group of my own girlfriends friends I cheated on her. They in turn told her, and she accused me which I denied. She was sorry and said lets put that behind us which I did. However the following week she distanced herself once again from me. I knew what was about to happen. 5 days ago I told my girlfriend we needed to figure this out. She asked me again if I cheated and I told her no. She told me her friends all hated me and told her I cheated. I did not. I swear. We broke up. She however told me she went to a dance club the night before with two of her friends, drank some Alcohol and grinded on four guys. She also gave two of the trashy guys her number when they asked. It may seem I am defending her but she was pressured by her two friends. She told me we were on a break so it was not cheating. At this point I am heartbroken. She is my first love but I also saw so much left for us. I want to still be with her but I want her to know I did not cheat on her. She texted me the day after we broke up and asked me if I was going to her cousins birthday party that day. WTF I know but all I replied with was a no. Ever since then it has been no contact but she did like a picture of mine on facebook. I want to contact her so bad. I will do anything at this point to feel normal. I go to college in one week. Is this something like the grass is greener syndrome?
KatZee Posted August 15, 2012 Posted August 15, 2012 This summer after senior year I went to several parties at my friends house. There are many girls who went to these parties but I was always taken so I never ever thought about cheating nor did any girls try to make moves on me. I told my friend Mike about this, and he actually told his girlfriend that I was cheating on my girlfriend. The summer was going very good until it hit time for college talk with my GF of two years. And we both knew we didn't want to talk about it. We are only going to colleges 1 hour away and I was committed, but her not so much. We took a break for a week however nothing changed. We still acted like a couple. A week ago At her grad party Mike's girlfriend told a group of my own girlfriends friends I cheated on her. They in turn told her, and she accused me which I denied. She was sorry and said lets put that behind us which I did. However the following week she distanced herself once again from me. I knew what was about to happen. 5 days ago I told my girlfriend we needed to figure this out. She asked me again if I cheated and I told her no. She told me her friends all hated me and told her I cheated. I did not. I swear. We broke up. She however told me she went to a dance club the night before with two of her friends, drank some Alcohol and grinded on four guys. She also gave two of the trashy guys her number when they asked. It may seem I am defending her but she was pressured by her two friends. She told me we were on a break so it was not cheating. At this point I am heartbroken. She is my first love but I also saw so much left for us. I want to still be with her but I want her to know I did not cheat on her. She texted me the day after we broke up and asked me if I was going to her cousins birthday party that day. WTF I know but all I replied with was a no. Ever since then it has been no contact but she did like a picture of mine on facebook. I want to contact her so bad. I will do anything at this point to feel normal. I go to college in one week. Is this something like the grass is greener syndrome? No this is not GIGS. This is a situation in which your "friend" is a complete and utter piece of sh*t. Decided to spread rumors... why? Don't even try to infiltrate a group of girls who hate you. Your "friend's" girlfriend told your girlfriend's friends that you cheated. That got back to your girlfriend, and she in turn went and got revenge on you by grinding all over everyone in the club. I think it's really sad your friend felt the need to say you cheated when you didn't, and it's even crappier that after all this time with your gf she believes everyone else's word over yours. It's hard though because at this point she has A LOT of people saying you cheated. I'm really not sure how to navigate this one. Perhaps get your friend and your ex in a room and confront him and ask him why he said you were cheating. Set the record straight. I see your ex as being confused as to what to do. On one hand she cares for you, on the other, everyone now hates you because you "cheated" and she's not sure what to believe.
Author Future7 Posted August 15, 2012 Author Posted August 15, 2012 That's exactly what I am thinking! She for sure went to the club to act out revenge. However she went with the girls who said I was cheating! They without a doubt told her that it was a good idea and I would deserve it. They are the ones who took her. A recent update though the girl I was apparently cheating with got into a fight with the sister of my Ex. She flat out laughed and didn't understand why they thought I got with her. And I know that had to have gotten to my Ex. So not only did I say I didn't cheat the girl is also well aware I didn't! I feel it is grass is greener syndrome partially because she didn't care as much about the cheating when we talked about it, it was more about going to college. And she didn't know what she felt.
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